We met initially on Grinder. He was wanting to Role Play. He as a Man Nurse with a Murse Bun and Pink Keds, me as a heavy handed Corrections Officer looking forward to my next vigorous Pat Down opportunity.
When he walked into the room with sweat beading up on his upper lip, primarily due to high cholesterol, and Pink Keds, I knew it was "Him". He was waving a massive thermometer in one hand and a toob of something in the other. I exhaled in my best "oh no" breath and said "whatcha gonna do with that Big Boi, Big Boy? He chuckled, winked, and for good measure blushed. But just a little.
As he came near I snatched him up for the Role Reversal, he was aghast, at 1st. The spin to the wall followed by a quick, but firm foot sweep, while leaning into his right ear "spread'm, my little candy striper". We both shook with excitement. Me because, well, it was MY role. He, well, just because he's a Man Nurse!
Then I noticed. He's got really Soft Hands.