Something sounds strange to me about .015 neck tension. The bullet is about .308. Are you saying that you make the case neck ID .308 minus .015 (that is, 0.293), seat the bullet long, then chamber it? Jamming a .308 bullet into a 0.293 neck would be very heavy neck tension. If I was going to try to discover where Jam is, I would make the neck ID around 305 or 306, remove the firing pin, start long and seat bullets deeper until the bolt handle drops. Finding jam by pushing against heavy neck tension will give you a number that is 15 to 20 thou too long (depends on the bullet construction, shape and metals).
3.575 is the minimum COL. Mine are about 3.62 with 230 grain Berger Hybrids because if they are longer than that they don't fit in my magazine. The Berger ogive is some mix of tangent and secant - so they are long and pointy. I don't have a good idea about the 21 ELD-X ogive shape and how it should hit the rifling. That makes it hard to evaluate the photos.
Looking at the photo where you blackened the bullet, it looks to me like the marks are on the bullet shank (the part that is .308 diameter) and the shank extends far out of the case. Am I seeing your photo correctly?