If you plan on putting a coating on it like duracoat and stuff of that nature you will want to use aluminum oxide. the coating will stay on much better.but if your not it just depends on how matte of a finish you want.glass beads being a lighter finsh.
In a pinch I have used the paver sand which is 60grit kiln dried. I actually liked the finish better than I was getting with 120 alum but I might also try 80 alum. The nice thing about the sand is I can get it local for about $4 per 50 pounds. I have to have alum shipped and hate paying for the weight.