Measure the primer heights and the primer pocket depths and ensure that you are putting them all the way down to the bottom of the pocket.
Measure your headspace and ensure you don’t have enough space for the round to slide forward and absorb the strike without detonating. The firing pin can just push the case forwards into empty space instead of denting the primer deep enough to go off. You can crush a primer slowly alright, it needs speed/momentum to go off.
Take the bolt apart and ensure that it’s clean and that there isn’t grease or lube in the firing pin channel that’s dried and gummed up.
Measure how much the firing pin sticks out of the bolt face when it’s uncocked/in the fired state. Should be .040-.060 or so.
Measure the back of the firing pin in relation to the bolt shroud in cocked and fired states to ensure that your trigger/action combo is giving you enough fall distance for an adequate smack. Should be at least .240