So this thread will be of great interest:
http://www.m4carbine.net/showthread.php?181495-New-Ultra-Lite-AR308-build Basically a guy who was a member here (but during scout) built a 4.8lbs AR10 that (he claimed) still shot 1moa. He gives the list in that thread.
I will copy-past here:
Upper Parts:
2A Armament Xanthos Upper receiver 7075 T6 @ 9.00 ounces
X-Caliber 416R 16 inch fluted barrel @ 31.3 ounces
2A titanium gas block @ 0.60 ounces
Gas tube mid length @ 0.80 ounces
titanium muzzle brake @ 0.65 ounces
Clark Custom Aluminum barrel nut @ 1.18 ounces
AR 308 carbon fiber hand guard 1.60 ounces in mid length 10.5 inches
Toolcraft Titanium 308 BCG @ 11.80 ounces with ti firing pin
Vltor charging handle @ 1.25 ounces
Lower Parts: Total weight 18.60 ounces with SSA-E trigger
2A Armament Xanthos lower @ 7.30 ounces
Mag Pul K grip @ 1.7 ounces
V7 titanium grip screw 0.113 ounces
V7 Mag catch aluminum 0.173 ounces
V7 Aluminum/titanium selector 90 degree 0.293 ounces
V7 aluminum AR 308 takedown pins 0.26 ounces
V7 tool steel bolt catch 0.31 ounces
Smoke Composite stock 3.3 oz.
AR308 carbine buffer (no weights) 0.85 oz.
NF polymer trigger group 0.65 oz with titanium trigger pins
SSA-E trigger group 2.6 ounces with titanium trigger pins
DPMS carbine buffer spring @ 1.5 ounces
Titanium buffer retainer, mag catch plunger
4.8lbs total.
Now this is a good list, but he goes a little extreme on weight cutting. You could have a higher probability of accuracy, durability, and usability if you were willing to gain another pound or so by going with something like this:
Upper
- Barrel: 16in rifle gas Craddock Bartlein nitrided with JP Extension $800 ~35oz (Proof is around the same weight).
- Upper: 2a Armament Xanthos $325 ~8z.
- Port Door: V7 Ultralight Port Door $38 .3oz + Rod $8.
- Handguard: V7 2099 Mlok Enlightened 13in 10.6oz $339.
- Gas Block: SLR Rifleworks Sentry 7 Titanium clamp on $150 .8oz.
- Bolt Carrier Group: V7 Titanium Carrier $369 8.5oz, JP High Pressure Bolt assembly $215 3.5oz.
- Gas Tube: V7 Inconel $70 1.3oz.
- Charging Handle: Armageddon Tactical GMS-10 Gen II $92 1.9oz.
- Muzzle Device: Any of the V7 Titanium ones, but really I'd run a suppressor if I were you.
Lower
- Lower Receiver: 2a Armament Xanthos $325 ~8oz.
- Takedown Pins: 2A Armament Titanium $47 .25oz (V7 is .353oz).
- Safety Selector: V7 Titanium Ambi $74 .42oz + Detent & Spring: V7 $4.
- Mag Catch: V7 Titanium $46 .26oz.
- Bolt Catch: V7 S7 Tool Steel $31 .39oz.
- Castle Nut: V7 Titanium $35 .35oz.
- End Plate: V7 Titanium $35 .26oz.
- Grip Screw: V7 Titanium $7 .1oz.
- Trigger: TriggerTech Adaptable AR PVD $265 2.27oz. +V7 Titanium Trigger Pins DLC $17 .1oz
- Buffer Tube: V7 2055 $76 3.7oz.
- Buffer Spring: Tubbs Spring $30 1.5oz.
- Buffer Weight: KAK AR15 Configurable Buffer Kit $47 1.7oz (could go Taccom to save .7oz, but nothing reciprocating then).
- Stock: Roger's Super Stock Delux $37 7.3oz. You can go lighter by going with a Smoke Composites stock, but no adjustability.
- Grip: Hogue 15 degree $17 1.5oz.
Total Weight ~6.15lbs.
Total Cost ~ $3475.
Now fair warning, I've heard the Xanthos has some receiver flex from some people, while others say that isn't an issue. Don't have one myself to test or I would. And to answer your question, yes you are going to have to build if you really want an AR10 that is accurate, lightweight, and reliable. Some factory rifles hit 2/3, but not 3/3. However, you can always pay a quality smith to build it for you if it seems intimidating.