Obviously you and I have different ways of thinking and are unlikely to change each others view point. I'm surprised that anyone who cares to have their eyes open has any faith in government to do the right thing.
Our government regardless of political affiliation has been murderous (and if History is not rewritten, will be remembered among Mao, Stalin, Hitler, and Pol Pot) domestically and abroad, has defrauded it's constituents, and progressively eroded our rights.
We need less of everything government.
Do you actually believe that criminals consider the criminal penalties for their actions? Absolutely not. The same thought process that goes through your head when you buy a lottery ticket is the same thought that is going through the head of a criminal committing a crime. You know the odds, you won't win, but you buy one anyway because there is a little part of you that thinks you're special and the odds don't apply to you and that you will win. Criminal believes he's special and won't get caught and that the odds don't apply to him. Because he won't get caught, the penalties don't matter.
You can make more laws, but it will not likely make any significant change, because the people who are careless, are careless because they believe the odds don't apply to them.
So let's say you do charge these people criminally, best case scenario, they are bankrupted and the family is broken because of financial stress, worst case, parents go to prison, destroys the remaining family. So who loses? Everyone.