Dad spent 13 months in Vietnam as an enlisted soldier, he was there 68-69, including the Tet Offensive. I believe he was scheduled to go home after 12 months, but volunteered to stay longer for a reason I've never heard, I think someone got hurt maybe, not sure. He contracted hepatitis at the end, I think it was from working on one of his friends, "up to elbows in blood" was the line I remember hearing years ago.
One of only about three stories he told me was, just a single line, but he said it with a heartfelt smile, something unusual for him. "I delivered a baby when I was over there." That was all, no more details, but the positive emotion of his face told me a lot more than he was willing to speak.
When watching 13 hours, he said that movie was the most accurate depiction of what he experienced, despite being different wars.
There were a couple other things he shared in confidence between father and son, but one my favorite story of his happened in San Francisco when he flew home. In full uniform (I believe) a dirty hippie came up to him, called him a nasty name and spit on him.
He responded exactly as he should. By punching the dirty hippie in the face, shattering his nose, and causing a bloody mess of that POS.
Despite being in constant pain all over his body, he never complained, worked two jobs when we were children, loved his wife and children and lived to serve his community. Everyone loved and respected him. He had a strength not found very often anymore.
On an aside note, his father spent 4 years fighting in the south pacific and my other grandfather spent four years fighting Nazi's in Europe along with my Godfather who was a POW for many years. God Bless you all.
To those who don't get it, there are no words that can make you understand, YOU'VE SACRIFICED NOTHING and benefited everything. You live in a free country because there are Americans willing to do what you aren't. You then figuratively spit in their face for providing you freedom in a manner you disagree with. I think you can infer what we think of those people.
THANK YOU Veterans! Everything good in this world I have is because honest, brave Americans were willing to lay down their lives for a belief that this country is worth it.