Pedo Hunting/St James Catholic School

[coachtech]

When I was young, I was enrolled in the St James Catholic school, Falls Church VA., while my old man was stationed at the Pentagon.

Dark times for me, blacked out memories. Ever since then, I hate religion(but I believe in God), hate people touching me, trust no one, NEVER trust authority. After that, for some un-explained reason, my family never pushed religion on me again.

Found some articles of Pedo priests at St. James in the '80's and 90's. What about the late 1970's?

Any intel, much appreciated. Perps probably long since dead, but the truth might bring closure.

Saint James Catholic School · 830 W Broad St, Falls Church, VA 22046

âââââ · Catholic school

www.google.com

 

[Ravenworks]

Take yourself to Dear Abby

 

[W54/XM-388]

Draw a line under it and walk away.
Acknowledge that bad things happened, that's life, it made you who you are and that's that.

Don't go trying to dig up ancient things in some kind of modern B.S. search for closure. It will only make it worse.
Walk away and don't ever look back, no matter how much you are tempted to look back, don't.

Humans do horrible things to each other, it's happened since the first humans were around, it happens to this day, and it will happen for as long as there are humans. Your suffering, while important to you, is not special or unique.

What you have control over is if you decide to live in the past and let the past control you, or if you decide to put the past behind you for good and never look back. One path leads to a good life, one path leads to misery and madness.

A good read of this book might help you understand the idea of moving on and not living in the past:

Book Review: Man's Search for Meaning (Victor Frankl) - PMC

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[TurboTrout]

Why is it puritan types often do this stuff?

Like you could go out and bang a hot 20 something chick, or risk you life yo have sex…with 8yr old boy . I just don’t get it. Then go back to judging and telling others how they are sinning and how they should live. Reason #485 why puritans are dangerous.

 

[Maggot]

Why is it puritan types often do this stuff?

Like you could go out and bang a hot 20 something chick, or risk you life yo have sex…with 8yr old boy . I just don’t get it. Then go back to judging and telling others how they are sinning and how they should live. Reason #485 why puritans are dangerous.

Its a disease. I truly believe most of them cannot control it. Some really try but its jsut too deep a sickness. Thats not making an excuse for them, just observing what I've seen and read.

I sometimes will look at a 15 year old femal and thing "God damn look at that." But it stops there because she's a child. They just cant stop.

Usually there are only two options, and castration doesnt help.

Confinement

Termination

 

[theLBC]

i recently got a letter from an attorney that is trying to find witnesses to abuse at the public grade school i attended in the 60-70s.
unfortunately, i don't remember anything that would help him.

 

[diverdon]

If in your situation I would google up attorneys representing victims and give them a call.

You might be able to help outting the abusers, and you might find a path toward peace by meeting with other victums.

 

[W54/XM-388]

I sometimes will look at a 15 year old femal and thing "God damn look at that." But it stops there because she's a child. They just cant stop.

That's where it gets a bit sticky and diverges from actual biology into dogma and societies made up rules which are subject to change.
That's when you do what is the current rules in society in order to not get in trouble, since trouble isn't worth it.

15 isn't a child in the same way that you could call a 10 year old a child.
There are plenty of 15 year olds and up that are running around this country right now, robbing, raping, carjacking and murdering folks.
15 is plenty old enough to be starting a family and reproducing and that was very common until recently in America.
It's actually still legal in many states in America, you just have to go to court and get a judge to sign off.
In other countries around the world 15 to 16 is considered an adult for all matters sexually.

Here apparently, we have fixated on the number 18 so that's what everybody is all up in arms about, despite actually sometimes 17 being the legal age in some states and such. Interestingly enough the more controlling ones in our society thought 18 wasn't enough for other things they didn't like so they decided sure you are an adult, but you still can't go buy alcohol or a handgun for self defense until we get a higher arbitrary number like 21.
Since current society in America is all messed up about sex and such, it's always a good idea to stay clearly well over the arbitrary 18 line despite there being legal exceptions, because you never know when some angry young crazy woman will be trying to destroy you because you didn't make her the princess she wanted to be.

I personally (as much as some folks will freak out at the idea) think that 16 and 17 year olds who fully knew what they were doing and were willing participants and even instigators in sexual activity, trying to claim that they are "child abuse" victims, does a significant disservice to real actual children who were children and actually got forcibly raped and abused.

That being said, any decent men who are older and intelligent and wise, probably will steer well clear of even 18 year olds as it's not worth the drama, and probably will be looking at women who are a fair bit older and have less crazy.

 

[gigamortis]

As far as the few religions that promote celibacy for their priests and pastors, that just seems to attract the worst kind of people to those "authority" positions.

 

[Rthur]

As far as the few religions that promote celibacy for their priests and pastors, that just seems to attract the worst kind of people to those "authority" positions.

More like societal trusted positions and religion is one.
Pedos will always seek out vocations that put them in close proximity to children.

R

 

[Maggot]

That's where it gets a bit sticky and diverges from actual biology into dogma and societies made up rules which are subject to change.
That's when you do what is the current rules in society in order to not get in trouble, since trouble isn't worth it.

15 isn't a child in the same way that you could call a 10 year old a child.
There are plenty of 15 year olds and up that are running around this country right now, robbing, raping, carjacking and murdering folks.
15 is plenty old enough to be starting a family and reproducing and that was very common until recently in America.
It's actually still legal in many states in America, you just have to go to court and get a judge to sign off.
In other countries around the world 15 to 16 is considered an adult for all matters sexually.

Here apparently, we have fixated on the number 18 so that's what everybody is all up in arms about, despite actually sometimes 17 being the legal age in some states and such. Interestingly enough the more controlling ones in our society thought 18 wasn't enough for other things they didn't like so they decided sure you are an adult, but you still can't go buy alcohol or a handgun for self defense until we get a higher arbitrary number like 21.
Since current society in America is all messed up about sex and such, it's always a good idea to stay clearly well over the arbitrary 18 line despite there being legal exceptions, because you never know when some angry young crazy woman will be trying to destroy you because you didn't make her the princess she wanted to be.

I personally (as much as some folks will freak out at the idea) think that 16 and 17 year olds who fully knew what they were doing and were willing participants and even instigators in sexual activity, trying to claim that they are "child abuse" victims, does a significant disservice to real actual children who were children and actually got forcibly raped and abused.

That being said, any decent men who are older and intelligent and wise, probably will steer well clear of even 18 year olds as it's not worth the drama, and probably will be looking at women who are a fair bit older and have less crazy.

I dont stop and say "No" to myself because Im afraid of getting caught, though there is that, but rather, because in OUR PRESENT SOCIETY she is a child. Running around raping and stealing, perhaps, able to breed? Perhaps, but still a child by our mores. In africa, she might be a woman at 13 when she bleeds the first time. This isnt that.

And what would a 15 year old have to offer a mature reasonable grown man besides the obvious?

 

[vinniedelpino]

Its a disease. I truly believe most of them cannot control it. Some really try but its jsut too deep a sickness. Thats not making an excuse for them, just observing what I've seen and read.

I sometimes will look at a 15 year old femal and thing "God damn look at that." But it stops there because she's a child. They just cant stop.

Usually there are only two options, and castration doesnt help.

Confinement

Termination

Castration generally stops at the testicles. While science would suggest that it would help solve our problem, it may not prevent it entirely.

I would submit we remove the whole package and provide the offenders with one of these for $7 so they don't make a mess of public restrooms.

Stand Up To Pee Device

I think it's worth a try.

 

[myronman3]

i briefly dated a 24 year old girl when i was 37. it was entirely too much stupidity. how the fuck a grown man could even date a 19 year old is lost on me.

 

[mrdrar]

First of all, you have my sympathy for what you went through and may still be dealing with. I do not understand the lack of empathy from others nor the "just get over it" mind set. That may work for some but it does not work for others. Please consider seeing a therapist of some sort who may be able to help you figure out what will help you. I agree with contacting the attorneys involved in this case.

Second, people who abuse others disgust me--especially those in authority, such as clergy, medicine, and law enforcement. I cannot tell you how harshly I think they should be dealt with.

Third, regarding age of consent--I think that there is a huge difference between 15 year olds exploring sexuality with each other and an adult taking advantage of a teenager who "consents" or even initiates an encounter. Grow up and be a man. Having a dick no more makes you a man than a dress makes a man a transgender woman. Yes, other countries and times have/had different traditions. Allowing children to grow up has been one of the major advances of Western Civilization. Preferring relationships with younger people represents immaturity and/or insecurity. Intimate relationships should be between equals. Flame on...

When I was young, I was enrolled in the St James Catholic school, Falls Church VA., while my old man was stationed at the Pentagon.

Dark times for me, blacked out memories. Ever since then, I hate religion(but I believe in God), hate people touching me, trust no one, NEVER trust authority. After that, for some un-explained reason, my family never pushed religion on me again.

Found some articles of Pedo priests at St. James in the '80's and 90's. What about the late 1970's?

Any intel, much appreciated. Perps probably long since dead, but the truth might bring closure.

https://www.google.com/maps/place/S...ec4747da4!8m2!3d38.889136!4d-77.1812099#[/URL

http://

 

[TurboTrout]

I dont stop and say "No" to myself because Im afraid of getting caught, though there is that, but rather, because in OUR PRESENT SOCIETY she is a child. Running around raping and stealing, perhaps, able to breed? Perhaps, but still a child by our mores. In africa, she might be a woman at 13 when she bleeds the first time. This isnt that.

And what would a 15 year old have to offer a mature reasonable grown man besides the obvious?

Plus I don’t even like hanging around kids, they are annoying

 

[gigamortis]

i briefly dated a 24 year old girl when i was 37. it was entirely too much stupidity. how the fuck a grown man could even date a 19 year old is lost on me.

Yep. Marriage in our western litigious society should be discouraged until after 35 years old. This would put a lot of divorce lawyers out of business. Most women don't know what the hell they want until after 35 or 40 years old.

 

[W54/XM-388]

And what would a 15 year old have to offer a mature reasonable grown man besides the obvious?

See you are smart. I'd say that I'd expand it to be more like what would a young 20s type have to offer an older person except total misery and headaches?

Yet you see folks with more money than brains, all the time going after these "hot" young things in the 18 to mid 20 range and wondering why it all goes so wrong when they discover those hot young things are nothing but narcissistic, evil, daughters of Satan, who love nothing better than taking everything they can get and leaving destruction in their wake.

 

[pmclaine]

Its a disease. I truly believe most of them cannot control it. Some really try but its jsut too deep a sickness. Thats not making an excuse for them, just observing what I've seen and read.

I sometimes will look at a 15 year old femal and thing "God damn look at that." But it stops there because she's a child. They just cant stop.

Usually there are only two options, and castration doesnt help.

Confinement

Termination

You just insulted everyone that has cancer...........

 

[theLBC]

As far as the few religions that promote celibacy for their priests and pastors, that just seems to attract the worst kind of people to those "authority" positions.

although not given much attention, this issue is not limited to priests...

Pedophiles in the Ultra-Orthodox Haredi Sector in Israel: Thought Processes Regarding their Actions - PubMed

This study explores thought patterns of Jewish Ashkenazi Ultra-Orthodox pedophiles in Israel and how they resolve the contradiction between their commitment to Jewish Law and having committed sexual offenses against minors. Ten adult men participated in this study. Using open semistructured...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

 

[gigamortis]

although not given much attention, this issue is not limited to priests...

Pedophiles in the Ultra-Orthodox Haredi Sector in Israel: Thought Processes Regarding their Actions - PubMed

This study explores thought patterns of Jewish Ashkenazi Ultra-Orthodox pedophiles in Israel and how they resolve the contradiction between their commitment to Jewish Law and having committed sexual offenses against minors. Ten adult men participated in this study. Using open semistructured...

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

I bet if castration was a requirement to be accepted into these celibate religious roles, there would be a staffing shortage for sure.

 

[W54/XM-388]

I do not understand the lack of empathy from others nor the "just get over it" mind set. That may work for some but it does not work for others.

It may sound a bit heartless, but if you are around bad things yourself and / or have lots of experience with people who have had bad things happen to them, eventually you learn the hard cold truth that those who can mentally draw a line under it, walk away from it and never revisit it again, are the ones who on the whole, lead normal, fulfilling lives and are emotionally and mentally stable. Those who dwell on it and are always looking for closure and always needing to talk or have therapy about it, tend to have a life filled with negative forces and instability.

A lot of people all throughout history, as well as currently and in the future, have been through a lot worse and like everyone else, had to decide to move on or let that be what their life was all about.

Again, why I suggested that book, it puts things in perspective.
The world, just like nature is not a tender coddling place.

 

[7.62willdo]

First of all, you have my sympathy for what you went through and may still be dealing with. I do not understand the lack of empathy from others nor the "just get over it" mind set. That may work for some but it does not work for others. Please consider seeing a therapist of some sort who may be able to help you figure out what will help you. I agree with contacting the attorneys involved in this case.

Second, people who abuse others disgust me--especially those in authority, such as clergy, medicine, and law enforcement. I cannot tell you how harshly I think they should be dealt with.

Third, regarding age of consent--I think that there is a huge difference between 15 year olds exploring sexuality with each other and an adult taking advantage of a teenager who "consents" or even initiates an encounter. Grow up and be a man. Having a dick no more makes you a man than a dress makes a man a transgender woman. Yes, other countries and times have/had different traditions. Allowing children to grow up has been one of the major advances of Western Civilization. Preferring relationships with younger people represents immaturity and/or insecurity. Intimate relationships should be between equals. Flame on...

http://

I’m guessing the “lack of empathy” is coming from some catholic members….

 

[oneshot86]

I would find them and gut them.

For those lurking here that are pedophiles. If you hurt anyone around me, I will go medival on you and then kill you.
Don't think I will, bet me buckwheat.

All pedophiles must die

 

[Maggot]

It may sound a bit heartless, but if you are around bad things yourself and / or have lots of experience with people who have had bad things happen to them, eventually you learn the hard cold truth that those who can mentally draw a line under it, walk away from it and never revisit it again, are the ones who on the whole, lead normal, fulfilling lives and are emotionally and mentally stable. Those who dwell on it and are always looking for closure and always needing to talk or have therapy about it, tend to have a life filled with negative forces and instability.

A lot of people all throughout history, as well as currently and in the future, have been through a lot worse and like everyone else, had to decide to move on or let that be what their life was all about.

Again, why I suggested that book, it puts things in perspective.
The world, just like nature is not a tender coddling place.

People are different, they are wounded in different ways they need to heal in different ways, not all can just walk away.

Some forms of abuse cause you to see yourself as evil. I think that is harder to walk away from than seeing someone killed.

I read VFrankl 50 years ago. Ive found a much simpler way to put it into perspective.

I just think of the poor woman in Somalia (or countless other places) sitting i a refugee camp watching her child starve because she cant make enough milk for it but there are boatloads of food in the harbor that some pisswad warlord wont allow to be unloaded.

Or that even though Im a poor, here in America, I still have it better off than 80%? 90%? or the rest of the world.

 

[oneshot86]

We must protect all, that cannot protect themselves

 

[TurboTrout]

I would find them and gut them.

For those lurking here that are pedophiles. If you hurt anyone around me, I will go medival on you and then kill you.
Don't think I will, bet me buckwheat.

All pedophiles must die

https://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/paranoia-older-adults

 

[myronman3]

All pedophiles must die

be careful with that anti-government rhetoric

 

[oneshot86]

https://www.webmd.com/healthy-aging/paranoia-older-adults

That's pretty retarded. Are you suggesting that there are not pedophiles.
Or is it that you don't believe we have even only a few pedophiles viewing, of the million or so registered entity's here on the hide.
Or, are you a pedophile and scared of me gutting you?

 

[TurboTrout]

That's pretty retarded. Are you suggesting that there are not pedophiles.
Or is it that you don't believe we have even only a few pedophiles viewing, of the million or so registered entity's here on the hide.
Or, are you a pedophile and scared of me gutting you?

There are, but they are thankfully pretty rare, the idea you felt the need to say what you did, thinking there are evil pedophiles lurking this site, it comes off as a little…un balanced

I mean the average person on here is like a fat well armed mid 50s dude, not exactly their desired audience.

 

[oneshot86]

There are, but they are thankfully pretty rare, the idea you felt the need to say what you did, thinking there are evil pedophiles lurking this site, it comes off as a little…un balanced

I mean the average person on here is like a fat well armed mid 50s dude, not exactly their desired audience.

Save the drama for your momma.

All pedophiles deserve a slow painful death

 

[Maggot]

There are, but they are thankfully pretty rare, the idea you felt the need to say what you did, thinking there are evil pedophiles lurking this site, it comes off as a little…un balanced

I mean the average person on here is like a fat well armed mid 50s dude, not exactly their desired audience.

I have. to agree with that at least the first part, though I feel pretty much the same way. Bes to keeps mouf shet sometimes.

 

[TurboTrout]

I have. to agree with that at least the first part, though I feel pretty much the same way. Bes to keeps mouf shet sometimes.

Nah, not loudly calling out shit is how we ended up in the mess this country is in

 

[TurboTrout]

Save the drama for your momma.

All pedophiles deserve a slow painful death

What drama? Do you even know what drama is?

And who said they didn’t?

But legit, please read that link I posted

What to Know About Paranoia in Older Adults

Some older adults develop paranoia as they age. Find out what to expect and when you should see your doctor.

www.webmd.com

I think it could help your quality of life

 

[myronman3]

it isn’t paranoia if the bastards really are out to get you.

 

[TurboTrout]

it isn’t paranoia if the bastards really are out to get you.

Like white extremists?

Honestly I wish my life was so simple I could be as worried about nearly non existent threats.

Seriously most kids fat gut is waaaaaay more likely to be their demise, or their moms shitty driving, but no, let’s worry about terrorists and pedophiles kidnapping your dirty fat kids, who you care so much about you dump them on the state to raise for you via government schools

It’s just silly paranoia for the most part

 

[DarnYankeeUSMC]

The op states that he has no memory of anything happening to him yet he wishes to dig it up.

People are different, they are wounded in different ways they need to heal in different ways, not all can just walk away.

Some forms of abuse cause you to see yourself as evil. I think that is harder to walk away from than seeing someone killed.

I read VFrankl 50 years ago. Ive found a much simpler way to put it into perspective.

I just think of the poor woman in Somalia (or countless other places) sitting i a refugee camp watching her child starve because she cant make enough milk for it but there are boatloads of food in the harbor that some pisswad warlord wont allow to be unloaded.

Or that even though Im a poor, here in America, I still have it better off than 80%? 90%? or the rest of the world.

So I say that it's best to move along and let a sleeping dog lay. Nothing good can come from it.
Ever seen where some child is questioned by an expert and a parent was then accused, tried, family torn apart and then find out that everything was fabricated? I recall a few years ago that many adults were supposedly revealing things many years later during therapy/hypnosis that turned out to be manufactured.

 

[W54/XM-388]

The op states that he has no memory of anything happening to him yet he wishes to dig it up.

So I say that it's best to move along and let a sleeping dog lay. Nothing good can come from it.
Ever seen where some child is questioned by an expert and a parent was then accused, tried, family torn apart and then find out that everything was fabricated? I recall a few years ago that many adults were supposedly revealing things many years later during therapy/hypnosis that turned out to be manufactured.

Especially if the OP says this happened to them in the 70s.
If you were an altar boy in the 70s, that means you are in your 50s or early 60s now.
Anyone of the adult sort who was involved, is probably long dead.

Do you want to spend the rest of the time you have left, living as well as you can, or bitterly wrapped up in things that happened half a century ago?

 

[Slash0311]

So a guy joins here in 2009, has 70 posts to his credit and brings up a religious topic in the Pit.

Seems like someone's fishing for hate to me. If its legit, the OP has my sympathy but this seems questionable.

 

[10ring'r]

What drama? Do you even know what drama is?

And who said they didn’t?

But legit, please read that link I posted

What to Know About Paranoia in Older Adults

Some older adults develop paranoia as they age. Find out what to expect and when you should see your doctor.

www.webmd.com

I think it could help your quality of life

TT, thanks for posting this. I was able to cancel a doctors (physiological) appointment, due to this info.. I'm in that age group. Mac

 

[diggler1833]

 

[7.62willdo]

be careful with that anti-government rhetoric

I see what you did there……

 

[Buzzinga]

Well shit, I've forgotten tons of memories from HS and college. Blacked out, hell yes, that's what happens when you have 20+ drinks in a night, haha.

@coachtech

so, let me get this straight. You have no memories of abuse, have no evidence of abuse, and for some reason you are "hoping" you were abused to explain why you don't like organized religion, don't trust people, and don't like being touched. You sound like someone who wants to be a victim so they don't have to face the realities of their own life failures.

Here is a piece of unsolicited advice to get you started: Identify one thing about yourself/your life that you don't like and have the ability to change. Now change it.

 

[TurboTrout]

Well shit, I've forgotten tons of memories from HS and college. Blacked out, hell yes, that's what happens when you have 20+ drinks in a night, haha.

@coachtech

so, let me get this straight. You have no memories of abuse, have no evidence of abuse, and for some reason you are "hoping" you were abused to explain why you don't like organized religion, don't trust people, and don't like being touched. You sound like someone who wants to be a victim so they don't have to face the realities of their own life failures.

Here is a piece of unsolicited advice to get you started: Identify one thing about yourself/your life that you don't like and have the ability to change. Now change it.

He does make a valid point

 

[Threadcutter308]

The Hide is no place for something like this.

If you indeed did have the experiences that you believe you did, you need to seek out Professional help. I am sympathetic to your plight and I encourage you to seek out said help.

The Hide is absolutely the last place you should be looking for that kind of Professional help.

 

[Maggot]

Castration generally stops at the testicles. While science would suggest that it would help solve our problem, it may not prevent it entirely.

I would submit we remove the whole package and provide the offenders with one of these for $7 so they don't make a mess of public restrooms.

Stand Up To Pee Device

I think it's worth a try.

The sickness is deeper than that. Removing the genitals would only stop penetration. Those sick ones are interested in something else, actual sex is only part of it.

Only two ways to stop it, prison or dead.

 

[TurboTrout]

The Hide is no place for something like this.

If you indeed did have the experiences that you believe you did, you need to seek out Professional help. I am sympathetic to your plight and I encourage you to seek out said help.

The Hide is absolutely the last place you should be looking for that kind of Professional help.

Reddit?

 

[7.62willdo]

Reddit?

Facebook.……duh

 

[Clearlight]

OP, contact support groups in your area, and in the original AO if you feel like it. There have been thousands of cases here in Aus.
catholic church has seen a large decline here, and in a lot of western countries. Probably why buggery HQ picked a South American
pope.... they are still buying it there. This idea of "staying silent' can get fucked. Thats exactly what allows this child abuse culture
to continue.

 

[vinniedelpino]

The sickness is deeper than that. Removing the genitals would only stop penetration. Those sick ones are interested in something else, actual sex is only part of it.

Only two ways to stop it, prison or dead.

I tried to be accommodating, but you convinced me.

Dead is fine.

 

[Steel head]

There’s only one punishment/cure for kiddie touchers.