This might be a fun one- Have you ever made a firearm purchase out of "spite"?

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    I have.

    As a quick disclaimer- this thread is more about the business/consumer relationship but I'm keeping it related to a firearms forum.

    With that said- I've absolutely purchased a firearm out of nothing more than spite because of how a business (one of which I've had a long established relationship with/and no I'm not intending to name them) treated me.

    As a quick backstory- as I'm sure many here can understand I'm talking about a 'preferred' FFL. You likely might know the type- the one where you knew most employees by name & they knew yours. If an interesting trade came in- you'd receive a phone call from them to let you know because it was something you would likely be interested in- a business/consumer relationship that usually takes many years to develop.

    I know it's often said from the consumer perspective in these stories that "I've spent a fortune!" there. And then someone points out that the margin is low and you just aren't that important. So with that said- just wanted to move on, I'd spent enough time & money there to build relationships with the owner & employees, and as for "how much I spent there over the years"... well let's just say I could have purchased a car in cash between the guns, ammo, & accessories. Maybe not a Mercedes but easily a Honda Accord or Nissan Altima easily across the categories I mentioned.

    Long story short- the business was sold to a new owner (and this would have been around the height of the 2012/Sandy Hook gun craze where any gun dealer could throw out a line and make a considerable profit without much effort). The new owner decided they'd move locations, rebrand the FFL, and focus on the gun owner 'lifestyle'...

    Ok- kinda changed the shop I built the relationship with, their prerogatives/outlook on things, and while I missed knowing the owner personally, I still knew a good portion of their (longterm) employees and decided to stay with them throughout the change in ownership/location.


    I ran into my first "hiccup" with the new owners with regards to a Colt Delta Elite I had put a deposit on several months back when I was doing my weekly/biweekly ritual of stopping in to see what was for sale and low & behold there was a shiny new Colt DE there in the counter for several hundred dollars more than I had locked in my order for. In fact... here's the exact pistol I'm referencing...

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    Again, at this point I still knew most of the employees and brought this to their attention and (yep) they had my order from however many months ago. One of them got the store manager that remained with them from the ownership change/move (ironically one I also knew for over 8 years at that point and previously worked with) to hash out my... "thoughts" about seeing the exact pistol for sale in their counter that I had ordered months ago (easily over 6 months) without my order being fulfilled. Without getting into the "nitty gritty" details, we worked it out.

    Time went on and I was seeing more and more of these type of shenanigans as the new owner changed their business focus, cut the loyalty programs, and the longterm employees all found new job opportunities. And... I still stuck with them because of my history with the business (or at least their name) and trying to support "small & local" businesses.

    Whelp- it all came to a breaking point (for me) over a relatively insignificant inquiry I made. The gist was they advertised matching any competitors pricing on their social media & there was a comment made on that post asking if that included online pricing, not using the business's social media account, but rather the (then) general manager of their whole operation used their personal account to respond to that question and assert that "yes, online business are included and they would beat their prices".

    Less than a month of that post- I was at the shop and eyeing up a Berreta 92 Compact that they had under the glass- it was something I was interested in but not fully committed to since it was more of a curiosity than a necessity for me at the time. I shared that with them as I was handling it and asked about the recent posts about beating competitors pricing. I'm sure you already know where this is going but I was told "nope" from the sales floor manager, best they could do was knock of $10 (it was something trivial like that) and was still well over a hundred dollars more than the online price.

    You can believe me or not, after all I'm just another internet stranger here, but I STILL gave them the benefit of the doubt and asked to speak to the manager on duty because after all my years of doing business there and building relationships I was certain we could correct the statement. Well, that didn't happen and essentially I was told that if I could get a better deal (haha- their sarcastic response) then do it.

    Well I had enough by that point and within the next 2 hours after that exchange I went ahead and ordered that dang pistol to be transferred to me by their closest FFL competitor. Come to think of it- I have a picture of that pistol here too...

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    So yes- I was close to purchasing this pistol regardless, but in this particular instance I bought it out of spite (it has been a fantastic pistol for what it's worth & I still have it).

    This next part, as I've grown older and (allegedly) wiser, I'm no longer as proud of but after I purchased that pistol and did the transaction from their direct competitor (who was in the same town), on my way home I made a point to stop at the other gun shop and speak to the same manager to let them know that I followed their advice and pursued other options. Admittedly they didn't seem to care & it was a rather juvenile move on my part but dang if it didn't feel good at the moment.

    To sum everything up- I have since stopped doing all business with the one I originally mentioned and the competitor has been my #1 "go-to" for all things firearms related for the past... 10+ years now.

    I know- kind of a long synopsis but the question I wanted to pose is has anyone else had a similar experience with their firearm purchases over the years or in other business pursuits?

    -LD
     
    Do you actually think anyone is going to read all that crap?
    Do you want me to start another thread about my opinions on the current state of our nation and our reading comprehension/attention capacity?

    There's merit to both your comment as well as my response to such. We used to read books, LONG books without any pictures and my post was both short & even included pictures.

    I really do mean this respectfully, but your (alleged) lack of reading capacity is pandemic in today's world and I'd wager if you could shake off the internet muscles/bravado, you might find that I'm talking about the human condition/life as we all know it.

    You don't have to participate of course (if this isn't your thing/which is your right) but don't outright shit on my thread merely because you don't understand what's being discussed.

    -LD
     
    Do you actually think anyone is going to read all that crap?

    I did.

    It's frustrating as a gun owner to be jerked around by a gun seller. Happened to me during Covid.

    A local I had a great relationship with reached out to me, because they couldn't get ammo from their distributors. I kept them in business for a while with the understanding that I would raid my surplus, and could replenish at wholesale cost, no tax, once the market recovered. About 18 months later, I transferred a rifle in, and they charged me $25 to do the paperwork. I asked about our original deal, and was told that "we just don't see how we can do that in this market".

    I invited them to eat a bag of dicks, reminded them that they would have closed the doors without my help, and I haven't been back. Told the story to everyone local who was a gun buyer in my circle.

    I hate disloyal motherfuckers. Oh well, I cleared out some shit that would have been gathering dust for a decade or three.
     
    There might not be a discussion between you & me- and that's ok. But don't inflate your self importance here to start assuming you can play the role of gate keeper of what discussion we do (or don't) have.

    -LD



    I'd wager since he's 50% of the so- called discussion, he can be a gate keeper.



    As far as my response above.
    You post a shit load of stuff with titles that literally force people to open them to see what you're going on about.

    As usual, your posts are very long-winded. I feel like I'm trying to listen to my ex and constantly saying "get to your point."

    That's all. Nothing more. Nothing less.

    It has nothing to do with short attention span theater. It's literally drivel.
     
    I'd wager since he's 50% of the so- called discussion, he can be a gate keeper.



    As far as my response above.
    You post a shit load of stuff with titles that literally force people to open them to see what you're going on about.

    As usual, your posts are very long-winded. I feel like I'm trying to listen to my ex and constantly saying "get to your point."

    That's all. Nothing more. Nothing less.

    It has nothing to do with short attention span theater. It's literally drivel.
    That's a fair response to an honest question and (for the 2nd time within the past month between us) I'll break from typical internet pissing matches and acquiesce to understanding your side of things.

    We might more often need to "agree to disagree" in our opinions but for what it's worth- I'm glad you & I are still able to at least maintain open channels of communication without attacking one another despite our usual disagreements on things. Maybe I'll post something here that strikes a chord that agrees with you. Until then- appreciate your honesty.

    -LD
     
    That's a fair response to an honest question and (for the 2nd time within the past month between us) I'll break from typical internet pissing matches and acquiesce to understanding your side of things.

    We might more often need to "agree to disagree" in our opinions but for what it's worth- I'm glad you & I are still able to at least maintain open channels of communication without attacking one another despite our usual disagreements on things. Maybe I'll post something here that strikes a chord that agrees with you. Until then- appreciate your honesty.

    -LD

    There are many times you post good things and I enjoy them.

    Just know I have friends on here that I know in person and we disagree also.
    Like you said we can agree to disagree without arguing.

    Have a good one.
     
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    I'd wager since he's 50% of the so- called discussion, he can be a gate keeper.



    As far as my response above.
    You post a shit load of stuff with titles that literally force people to open them to see what you're going on about.

    As usual, your posts are very long-winded. I feel like I'm trying to listen to my ex and constantly saying "get to your point."

    That's all. Nothing more. Nothing less.

    It has nothing to do with short attention span theater. It's literally drivel.
    I usually stop people in the first 1/4 of a story and tell them get to the point, I’ve usually figured out what’s going on anyway unless there’s some huge plot twist making everything I’ve heard to that point unnecessary bs that’s wasted minutes of my life.

    Maybe I’m just an asshole.

    That being said duckyluck seems alright, but long story. Need a tldr
     
    I usually stop people in the first 1/4 of a story and tell them get to the point, I’ve usually figured out what’s going on anyway unless there’s some huge plot twist making everything I’ve heard to that point unnecessary bs that’s wasted minutes of my life.

    Maybe I’m just an asshole.

    That being said duckyluck seems alright, but long story. Need a tldr

    So, a little back story to last night's post from me.
    Dinner is done and all cleaned up.
    Rebecca and I decide to pour a nice bit of 15yr old scotch.
    We get all settled in the front room and I pick up my copy of For whom the bell tolls. (Yes, I actually read something other than the Bear Pit)

    I pick up my glass and begin taking a sip. Before I set it down, my phone rings...
    It's the middle child.
    Hey, my truck is overheating...

    Okay, I'll be there shortly.
    Add in: I have to pick up coolant, drive ten miles the other way, it's dark and it's raining like hell. My knee and hip are hurting like a motherfucker.

    Get that all taken care of. Get settled back in and I struggle to stay awake.
    However, I have some scotch sitting there so I do my damndest to finish it. While doing so, I think I read the same paragraph eleventy-three times.
    Fuck it. I'm going to bed.
    Delays happen so I pick up the phone and go to the Pit.

    I open the Duck's thread and see it's long, so I slip in the sleeping emoji.

    And here we go.











    TLDR?
    Probably.
    I was tired, I didn't want to be out in the rain and I was sore, so I was being more of an ass than normal.
    No excuse for it.


    Now. It's morning time. I've had my first cup of coffee and I'm about to go poop. I'll be back on track in a few minutes. Stand by.
     
    So, a little back story to last night's post from me.
    Dinner is done and all cleaned up.
    Rebecca and I decide to pour a nice bit of 15yr old scotch.
    We get all settled in the front room and I pick up my copy of For whom the bell tolls. (Yes, I actually read something other than the Bear Pit)

    I pick up my glass and begin taking a sip. Before I set it down, my phone rings...
    It's the middle child.
    Hey, my truck is overheating...

    Okay, I'll be there shortly.
    Add in: I have to pick up coolant, drive ten miles the other way, it's dark and it's raining like hell. My knee and hip are hurting like a motherfucker.

    Get that all taken care of. Get settled back in and I struggle to stay awake.
    However, I have some scotch sitting there so I do my damndest to finish it. While doing so, I think I read the same paragraph eleventy- three times.
    Fuck it. I'm going to bed.
    Delays happen so I pick up the phone and go to the Pit.

    I open the Duck's thread and see it's long, so I slip in the sleeping emoji.

    And here we go.











    TLDR?
    Probably.
    I was tired, I didn't want to be out in the rain and I was sore, so I was being more of an ass than normal.
    No excuse for it.


    Now. It's morning time. I've had my first cup of coffee and I'm about to go poop. I'll be back on track in a few minutes. Stand by.
    I seriously scrolled looking for a tldr 😆
     
    Someone must be retired and bored out of his mind. Nothing wrong with that, but lets not pretend the issue is reading and patience. Even the greatest generation wasn't interested in LONG ass personal stories! Write a book dude!

    Short version.....Local FFL goes from good to bad under new ownership. FFL under new ownership won't price match as advertised. Bought firearm from competitor and sent pistol to FFL under new ownership "in spite". Now uses competitor.

    If you want pictures and lots of filler words refer to OP.
     
    So, a little back story to last night's post from me.
    Dinner is done and all cleaned up.
    Rebecca and I decide to pour a nice bit of 15yr old scotch.
    We get all settled in the front room and I pick up my copy of For whom the bell tolls. (Yes, I actually read something other than the Bear Pit)

    Shouldn’t you be drinking daiquiris?
     
    Here is what I don't get. If the OP is prone to long form posts, one does not have to read his threads.

    Or doze off after the second paragraph and move on to something else.

    But I get it, bitching and casting shite upon each other is the playbook.

    And that is part of why I hang out here. Once in a while, I learn a cool technical thing. Otherwise, I am entertained by the swirling tornado of caca that is the Pit.
     
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    I have not done a firearm spite purchase but i have on other products/services . In your case imho you lost good old customer cred when the new owner came in sometimes the new owners don't get the word of who is a real good buyer and sometimes they don't care. Move on to another store and start the ride all over again .
     
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    I usually stop people in the first 1/4 of a story and tell them get to the point, I’ve usually figured out what’s going on anyway unless there’s some huge plot twist making everything I’ve heard to that point unnecessary bs that’s wasted minutes of my life.

    Maybe I’m just an asshole.

    That being said duckyluck seems alright, but long story. Need a tldr
    His long term gun shop changed ownership AND location and he is somehow surprised business practices changed. They refused to give him a sweetheart deal so he bought elsewhere.
     
    Similar happened locally, when I made my displeasure known about the order discrepancy, not the price, but I asked and paid for a 20" barrel version and they ordered a 24" version and tried to get me to accept it. It took a month to get my money back. It took a lot of arguing and eventually letting the credit card company handle it. I had spent a small fortune there up until that point, ammo, firearms and custom/gunsmith work.

    They have since gotten their knickers tangled up with the ATF over shady dealings with others. I don't know the specifics since I had stop darkening their doorway. I only know they are permanently closed and the stories circulated afterwards.
     
    Earnest watching you drink scotch…

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    The bourbon was behind the scotch.
    It also tastes a little funky after spicy stuff.

    Okay, fukkit. The real answer is because Rebecca wanted the scotch, so we drank the same thing.


    Not sure what they were drinking in the book, but he spelled whisky with the added E. So, t'werent Skootch whisky.



    BTW, Ernie looks like he's a couple sheets into the wind.
     
    I have.

    As a quick disclaimer- this thread is more about the business/consumer relationship but I'm keeping it related to a firearms forum.

    With that said- I've absolutely purchased a firearm out of nothing more than spite because of how a business (one of which I've had a long established relationship with/and no I'm not intending to name them) treated me.

    As a quick backstory- as I'm sure many here can understand I'm talking about a 'preferred' FFL. You likely might know the type- the one where you knew most employees by name & they knew yours. If an interesting trade came in- you'd receive a phone call from them to let you know because it was something you would likely be interested in- a business/consumer relationship that usually takes many years to develop.

    I know it's often said from the consumer perspective in these stories that "I've spent a fortune!" there. And then someone points out that the margin is low and you just aren't that important. So with that said- just wanted to move on, I'd spent enough time & money there to build relationships with the owner & employees, and as for "how much I spent there over the years"... well let's just say I could have purchased a car in cash between the guns, ammo, & accessories. Maybe not a Mercedes but easily a Honda Accord or Nissan Altima easily across the categories I mentioned.

    Long story short- the business was sold to a new owner (and this would have been around the height of the 2012/Sandy Hook gun craze where any gun dealer could throw out a line and make a considerable profit without much effort). The new owner decided they'd move locations, rebrand the FFL, and focus on the gun owner 'lifestyle'...

    Ok- kinda changed the shop I built the relationship with, their prerogatives/outlook on things, and while I missed knowing the owner personally, I still knew a good portion of their (longterm) employees and decided to stay with them throughout the change in ownership/location.


    I ran into my first "hiccup" with the new owners with regards to a Colt Delta Elite I had put a deposit on several months back when I was doing my weekly/biweekly ritual of stopping in to see what was for sale and low & behold there was a shiny new Colt DE there in the counter for several hundred dollars more than I had locked in my order for. In fact... here's the exact pistol I'm referencing...

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    Again, at this point I still knew most of the employees and brought this to their attention and (yep) they had my order from however many months ago. One of them got the store manager that remained with them from the ownership change/move (ironically one I also knew for over 8 years at that point and previously worked with) to hash out my... "thoughts" about seeing the exact pistol for sale in their counter that I had ordered months ago (easily over 6 months) without my order being fulfilled. Without getting into the "nitty gritty" details, we worked it out.

    Time went on and I was seeing more and more of these type of shenanigans as the new owner changed their business focus, cut the loyalty programs, and the longterm employees all found new job opportunities. And... I still stuck with them because of my history with the business (or at least their name) and trying to support "small & local" businesses.

    Whelp- it all came to a breaking point (for me) over a relatively insignificant inquiry I made. The gist was they advertised matching any competitors pricing on their social media & there was a comment made on that post asking if that included online pricing, not using the business's social media account, but rather the (then) general manager of their whole operation used their personal account to respond to that question and assert that "yes, online business are included and they would beat their prices".

    Less than a month of that post- I was at the shop and eyeing up a Berreta 92 Compact that they had under the glass- it was something I was interested in but not fully committed to since it was more of a curiosity than a necessity for me at the time. I shared that with them as I was handling it and asked about the recent posts about beating competitors pricing. I'm sure you already know where this is going but I was told "nope" from the sales floor manager, best they could do was knock of $10 (it was something trivial like that) and was still well over a hundred dollars more than the online price.

    You can believe me or not, after all I'm just another internet stranger here, but I STILL gave them the benefit of the doubt and asked to speak to the manager on duty because after all my years of doing business there and building relationships I was certain we could correct the statement. Well, that didn't happen and essentially I was told that if I could get a better deal (haha- their sarcastic response) then do it.

    Well I had enough by that point and within the next 2 hours after that exchange I went ahead and ordered that dang pistol to be transferred to me by their closest FFL competitor. Come to think of it- I have a picture of that pistol here too...

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    So yes- I was close to purchasing this pistol regardless, but in this particular instance I bought it out of spite (it has been a fantastic pistol for what it's worth & I still have it).

    This next part, as I've grown older and (allegedly) wiser, I'm no longer as proud of but after I purchased that pistol and did the transaction from their direct competitor (who was in the same town), on my way home I made a point to stop at the other gun shop and speak to the same manager to let them know that I followed their advice and pursued other options. Admittedly they didn't seem to care & it was a rather juvenile move on my part but dang if it didn't feel good at the moment.

    To sum everything up- I have since stopped doing all business with the one I originally mentioned and the competitor has been my #1 "go-to" for all things firearms related for the past... 10+ years now.

    I know- kind of a long synopsis but the question I wanted to pose is has anyone else had a similar experience with their firearm purchases over the years or in other business pursuits?

    -LD
     

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    My wife didn't want me giving my eldest daughter a 9mm handgun for Christmas but I did it anyway (along with a safe, ammo, cleaning kit and other essential things). Wife was pissed and warned me that if I ever did that again she'd leave me. So I gave my youngest daughter a .40 cal handgun. :)

    Did it work?
     
    I bought a Desert Eagle in .50 AE and posted photos on the web, just to annoy antisemites.

    I think my relatives stole nearly all of my grandfather's guns, so I buy similar guns that are much better. I have more disposable income than they do.

    I have a relative who reads my blog and reports back to the others behind my back, so he sees the target photos and gun photos I post.
     
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    I’m not saying this is luckyduck, but I never had someone say “I’ve spent a ton of money here” that actually spent a ton of money. Usually you’d search their history and they bought a box of ammo once lol.
    And then posts about it on every forum they can find. This part is him.
     
    I have not done a firearm spite purchase but i have on other products/services . In your case imho you lost good old customer cred when the new owner came in sometimes the new owners don't get the word of who is a real good buyer and sometimes they don't care. Move on to another store and start the ride all over again .
    You're not wrong & in all honesty, I did just that.
     
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    His long term gun shop changed ownership AND location and he is somehow surprised business practices changed. They refused to give him a sweetheart deal so he bought elsewhere.

    Close- but not exactly. I hadn't even decided to purchase the firearm- I merely mentioned that within the past month they publicly advertised (to all former, current, and future customers) that they'd match prices from both local and online competitors.

    This wasn't a post about a gun shop that didn't fellate me, for that matter it hardly was a post about guns either (but I tried to keep my post related to the forum in which it was posted).

    Rather it's a personal experience of lousy business practices (I think we can all agree that to be the case in my example if they read the 1st post as well as how some folks say 'enough is enough' and souring the relationship between businesses and customers based solely on said practices).

    I did not ask for a better deal because of my relationship with them- I asked them to honor their advertised pricing (same to all other customers regardless of how many years I've done business with them). Their reaction, again about a decade or so ago, was so insulting that I haven't done business with them since.

    Have to figure I'm not alone in that experience and people tend to be very open to sharing when a business screwed them over & what they did in response to that.

    -LD
     
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    I’m not saying this is luckyduck, but I never had someone say “I’ve spent a ton of money here” that actually spent a ton of money. Usually you’d search their history and they bought a box of ammo once lol.

    In all fairness- I 100% agree with you on that point. This is why I made I had intentionally elaborated on that comment (including dollar amounts and what products that money was spread across and also from the get-go, pointed out which products had very low profit margins amongst those categories).

    But again, I couldn't agree more and that's a phrase or belief iterated by many/if not most folks.

    That's why I tend to try to be detailed in my correspondences. Of course being detailed and thorough amounts to a longer post which is the grievance that's been most commonly pointed out here.

    Can't please everyone.

    -LD
     
    Well you at least tried- thanks for making the effort at least.

    Hope all is well with you and that you had a pleasant holiday season and wishing you & your family a happy and healthy new years.

    -LD
     
    Not sure I follow your train of thought here?
    Some people need work on their roasting skills. There is a way to roast people and get the subject to laugh.

    No one had to read your thread or reply to it. It could have died on the vine.

    As we all know well and good, saying something about us all being civilized results in a new flurry of flung feces.
     
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