So something to clarify, you are using a full length bushing die, not a regular full length die if it came with two decapping rod accessories. As such you can control the amount of neck sizing via the bushing so an expander may not always be necessary. So in addition to the expander ball you also have a decapping pin retainer, not a second expander ball. That decapping pin retainer should never touch the brass, if it does then you have a bushing that is entirely too small.
So to answer which is best requires you to provide some actual information. And when you collect that actual information you will find your answer.