i'm cheap and did alot of "feels right" torquing, but i bought a FAT wrench last year when it was on sale at midway. glad i did, it's nice to have one around to know everything is just so.
if you have some time to shop around you can pick one up for under 50.00, and with a coupon and other purchases, it lowers it more. after a few trips to the smith, and if he actually charges you for something this simple, the wrench will pay itself off in no time. already putting $ into the mcree, what's another 50.00 and you get to use it on everything.
65lbs is the milspec / rule of thumb for the aftermarket synthetics, but will damage a wood stock.
what i got from remington, weaver, and other places:
"Thank you for your inquiry. Ring caps have a torque spec of 10-15 in. lbs. and cross bolts use a torque of 35-40 in. lbs. Bases are usually affixed with 15-20 in. lbs.
Thanks for thinking of Weaver
JR
Weaver Technical Services
Presently, Remington’ website is offering a spec of “no more than 45 in/lbs” on the action screws of the 700 VS and 10-15 in/lbs on the standard 700. In the past we have garnered guard screw specs from Weatherby (65 in/lbs), Winchester (25 in/lbs), and HS Precision (45 in/lbs). I expect that all of these specifications are potentially subject to change when production changes are made during any retooling or redesign. It has always been my opinion that having a consistent torque on the action screws is more important than the number of foot lbs."
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