This probably goes over your head, but the American political system is a series of median voter contests. So, you are going to have to live with the fact that parts of your coalition don't share your views on things like gun control, abortion etc, or you are going to have to live as somebody who has no political power. So you might hate Romney, Graham and Mitch, though the latter is a damn American hero, but your choice is always going to come down to what can be smuggled by the median guy in the house, and even worse, the 40th worst guy in the senate. And they need to convince their median voter, so the best you get is, probably, somewhere around a moderately conservative voter in the Los Angeles suburbs on a relatively good Republican year. The Democrats are learning that now with Manchin and Sinema, as I told you they would, and as of course you assured me they wouldn't (lol.)
So your choice is to demonize and repel everybody to the left of you, and frankly you repel quite a few people to the right of you, or you can try to build a coalition to start getting what you want, and if you elect competent people, you can grow that coalition. And before you tell me it is naive and that this is all fixed and controlled or whatever, the fact remains that, even if it is, you still cannot win by calling possible (sometimes) allies communists and baby killers, because it feels good as you sit impotent in your far left state raging at the machine.
Adults deal with reality. That is why people who act as adults have power, because they see reality and how to shape it to their advantage rather than to their disadvantage. Obviously we have a good example of that last night, where Youngkin put together a winning coalition of pretty diverse voters with regard to ideology. I am sure there were assault weapons ban folks in there, pro-abortion people, and yet I didn't see him trying to run them off as commies and enemies. Makes you think.... if you can.