One in Four Gen Z Job Applicants Bring Parents to Interview.

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College grads venturing out into the corporate world should, by now, know the ins and outs of the job interview process.

Dress smart. Project confidence. Know how to answer that boilerplate question, “What’s your biggest flaw?” Don’t bring your parents along.

Wait, what? Come again? Yes, it seems the safe-space generation apparently needs mommy and/or daddy to show up as they try to land their dream job.

According to a survey by Resume Templates, 26 percent of those ages 18 to 27 brought along a parent to a job interview — and that’s just the beginning of the disturbing findings from the survey, conducted in April among 1,428 U.S.-based respondents who said they had searched for a job in the last year.

“Gen Z has a reputation for lacking the independence, motivation, and real-world knowledge to contribute in the workplace,” the employment resource provider said in a media release.

That’s putting it mildly.

“Many Gen Z’ers involve their parents in their interview process. In fact, 26 percent of all Gen Zers who have undergone a job search in the past year say that they have taken a parent to an interview,” the media release read.

“Of Gen Z’ers who brought their parent(s), 31 percent had a parent accompany them to an in-person interview, while 29 percent had them join a virtual interview.

“For those who had a parent come to an in-person interview, 37 percent say that their parent accompanied them to the office, 26 percent say their parent physically sat in the interview room, and 18 percent say their parent introduced themselves to the manager. Additionally, 7 percent say their parents answered questions.”

Of those Gen Z’ers who attended virtual interviews, 71 percent said that the parent was off-camera and 29 percent of parents joined Zoom interviews with their children.

There are no words.

Another 24 percent of Gen Z respondents said their parents submitted job applications for them and 18 percent said their parents wrote their resume from scratch for them. (Only 13 percent wrote the cover letter from scratch, thank heavens.)

“The top reasons Gen Z’ers ask their parents to complete and submit their applications include thinking their parents’ work is better (46 percent), not knowing how to communicate with hiring managers (34 percent), being unmotivated (32 percent), and poor mental health (22 percent),” the media release read.

“The number of employment opportunities and complexity of the job market are factors causing Gen Z’ers to seek parental help,” said Andrew Stoner, an executive resume writer for the firm.

“Knowing what a company does, verifying its legitimacy, and understanding what a specific job entails are tasks that can be challenging for someone without any formal work experience. A parent’s help should bolster a child’s development and eventual independence.”

“While a parent writing a resume or cover letter isn’t necessarily an ethical concern, a child should be ready to fully discuss every aspect of their resume with a potential employer,” he added.

“Broadly speaking, Gen Z can become more independent through a healthy partnership; one that is led by a willing parent and develops critical life skills.”

Now, a caveat — while Resume Templates does a great deal of market research into trends in the employment market, it’s also in the business of selling resume services. Furthermore, this appears to be more of an informal survey than a rigorous poll.

That being said, do you know what the number of 18- to 27-year-old job seekers bringing parents to job interviews should be? Zero. Zilch. Nada. No matter how informal the poll, there shouldn’t be a. single. person. who. admits. to. this.

If you have some degree of schooling, you should not need your mom or dad to write your resume. You do not need them to write your cover letter. And you certainly do not need them to sit in an interview with you like you just got caught flushing a cherry bomb down the toilet at your middle school.

Between helicopter parenting, safe-space culture, digital lives replacing life skills, and our culture’s collective tendency to treat maturity and self-reliance as a millstone around one’s neck, it appears we’ve finally raised a generation completely unable to function as autonomous adults.

This isn’t just one of those “kids today!” rants we’ve heard from time immemorial. This time, we’ve really done it. And you don’t need this survey to back this assertion up. Look around you. It takes a village, they say — and our village has raised a generation that knows how to use 86 different Instagram filters but doesn’t know the difference between a man and a woman.

There isn’t a single person on God’s green Earth who should openly admit to bringing a parent along to a job interview. Period. It doesn’t matter if you think their worth is better, they know how to communicate with hiring managers, or your fragile mental health means you just aren’t up to it.

If these are the men and women who will inherit our positions in American enterprise as we move up the corporate ladder — and eventually, one day, take over — we’re thoroughly doomed.


I have to believe that this wierdness falls back on the parents. First, by either raising their kids wanting to be their best friend instead of a real parent or by raising their kid to be a weak, mindless individual. What kind of parent would go to their kids job interview...the kind that is just fucking wierd to begin with!
 

College grads venturing out into the corporate world should, by now, know the ins and outs of the job interview process.

Dress smart. Project confidence. Know how to answer that boilerplate question, “What’s your biggest flaw?” Don’t bring your parents along.

Wait, what? Come again? Yes, it seems the safe-space generation apparently needs mommy and/or daddy to show up as they try to land their dream job.

According to a survey by Resume Templates, 26 percent of those ages 18 to 27 brought along a parent to a job interview — and that’s just the beginning of the disturbing findings from the survey, conducted in April among 1,428 U.S.-based respondents who said they had searched for a job in the last year.

“Gen Z has a reputation for lacking the independence, motivation, and real-world knowledge to contribute in the workplace,” the employment resource provider said in a media release.

That’s putting it mildly.

“Many Gen Z’ers involve their parents in their interview process. In fact, 26 percent of all Gen Zers who have undergone a job search in the past year say that they have taken a parent to an interview,” the media release read.

“Of Gen Z’ers who brought their parent(s), 31 percent had a parent accompany them to an in-person interview, while 29 percent had them join a virtual interview.

“For those who had a parent come to an in-person interview, 37 percent say that their parent accompanied them to the office, 26 percent say their parent physically sat in the interview room, and 18 percent say their parent introduced themselves to the manager. Additionally, 7 percent say their parents answered questions.”

Of those Gen Z’ers who attended virtual interviews, 71 percent said that the parent was off-camera and 29 percent of parents joined Zoom interviews with their children.

There are no words.

Another 24 percent of Gen Z respondents said their parents submitted job applications for them and 18 percent said their parents wrote their resume from scratch for them. (Only 13 percent wrote the cover letter from scratch, thank heavens.)

“The top reasons Gen Z’ers ask their parents to complete and submit their applications include thinking their parents’ work is better (46 percent), not knowing how to communicate with hiring managers (34 percent), being unmotivated (32 percent), and poor mental health (22 percent),” the media release read.

“The number of employment opportunities and complexity of the job market are factors causing Gen Z’ers to seek parental help,” said Andrew Stoner, an executive resume writer for the firm.

“Knowing what a company does, verifying its legitimacy, and understanding what a specific job entails are tasks that can be challenging for someone without any formal work experience. A parent’s help should bolster a child’s development and eventual independence.”

“While a parent writing a resume or cover letter isn’t necessarily an ethical concern, a child should be ready to fully discuss every aspect of their resume with a potential employer,” he added.

“Broadly speaking, Gen Z can become more independent through a healthy partnership; one that is led by a willing parent and develops critical life skills.”

Now, a caveat — while Resume Templates does a great deal of market research into trends in the employment market, it’s also in the business of selling resume services. Furthermore, this appears to be more of an informal survey than a rigorous poll.

That being said, do you know what the number of 18- to 27-year-old job seekers bringing parents to job interviews should be? Zero. Zilch. Nada. No matter how informal the poll, there shouldn’t be a. single. person. who. admits. to. this.

If you have some degree of schooling, you should not need your mom or dad to write your resume. You do not need them to write your cover letter. And you certainly do not need them to sit in an interview with you like you just got caught flushing a cherry bomb down the toilet at your middle school.

Between helicopter parenting, safe-space culture, digital lives replacing life skills, and our culture’s collective tendency to treat maturity and self-reliance as a millstone around one’s neck, it appears we’ve finally raised a generation completely unable to function as autonomous adults.

This isn’t just one of those “kids today!” rants we’ve heard from time immemorial. This time, we’ve really done it. And you don’t need this survey to back this assertion up. Look around you. It takes a village, they say — and our village has raised a generation that knows how to use 86 different Instagram filters but doesn’t know the difference between a man and a woman.

There isn’t a single person on God’s green Earth who should openly admit to bringing a parent along to a job interview. Period. It doesn’t matter if you think their worth is better, they know how to communicate with hiring managers, or your fragile mental health means you just aren’t up to it.

If these are the men and women who will inherit our positions in American enterprise as we move up the corporate ladder — and eventually, one day, take over — we’re thoroughly doomed.


I have to believe that this wierdness falls back on the parents. First, by either raising their kids wanting to be their best friend instead of a real parent or by raising their kid to be a weak, mindless individual. What kind of parent would go to their kids job interview...the kind that is just fucking wierd to begin with!
I'm gen X and my mom took me to my first job interview and went in with me. I was 12, I got the job, worked there until I graduated high school. I graduated high school making $6.20/hr bitches!

Sad, as I know for sure I am not stopping to pick up a $1 bill. I might even hesitate now to bend over and pick up $5 bill. I know I have been overcharged about $10 before and the thought of going back in to argue over $10, was just not worth the pain to me. I can't even buy lunch for $6.20, and I don't even eat that much! I carry more in my wallet than I made my first year of working.
 
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I could understand a parent sitting off camera for a virtual interview to see how their child did and provide them with advice but no way would I ever consider bringing a parent to an in person interview.
 
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I was getting W-2s already by age 15. Worked 3 different jobs before I even started my Senior year in HS.

Worked in a kitchen, worked at Taco Bell, bagged groceries and pulled in carts, and worked at an art supply store all by 11th Grade.

My parents were never present for any of this.
 
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I'm gen X and my mom took me to my first job interview and went in with me. I was 12, I got the job, worked there until I graduated high school. I graduated high school making $6.20/hr bitches!

Sad, as I know for sure I am not stopping to pick up a $1 bill. I might even hesitate now to bend over and pick up $5 bill. I know I have been overcharged about $10 before and the thought of going back in to argue over $10, was just not worth the pain to me. I can't even buy lunch for $6.20, and I don't even eat that much! I carry more in my wallet than I made my first year of working.
$6.20 would have been a really good High School wage in the 80's. When I was 16 (2007) I think I made about $7
 
I'm gen X and my mom took me to my first job interview and went in with me. I was 12, I got the job, worked there until I graduated high school. I graduated high school making $6.20/hr bitches!

Sad, as I know for sure I am not stopping to pick up a $1 bill. I might even hesitate now to bend over and pick up $5 bill. I know I have been overcharged about $10 before and the thought of going back in to argue over $10, was just not worth the pain to me. I can't even buy lunch for $6.20, and I don't even eat that much! I carry more in my wallet than I made my first year of working.
Since the article was NOT about a 12 y.o. and not about being cavalier about money, I can only presume you are desperate for social media validation and attention.

Carry on…I won’t know.
 
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Since the article was NOT about a 12 y.o. and not about being cavalier about money, I can only presume you are desperate for social media validation and attention.

Carry on…I won’t know.
Yes, specifically your validation. Now, im complete. Me responding now makes you complete. Wanna make some tik tok videos together.....bro?
 
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American society is dealing with the first generation of children raised by "helicopter moms" reaching adulthood.
If you think it's bad now, wait another 10-15 years when "raised by smart phone" kids are grown up.
 
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My nephew is 20 years old and hasn’t left his bedroom since he graduated high school. Maybe takes a shower and changes his clothes twice a month.

Worthless fuck spends every moment of his life on the internet playing games then claims he doesn’t know how to search nor apply for a job.

Take the little faggot to the range, let ‘em shoot an MP5, HK53 all kinds of AR’s and pistols, AIAW all the guns from the cool games! “It’s okay but the games are better”.

Needs his ass kicked bad but my brother won’t do it and the sister in law threatens the police when I offer.
 
It’s a failure all around. We are multiple generations into failures of parents to properly raise children. It’s not going to get better. Too many families no longer posses the tools needed.
About 7 yrs ago I was talking to a college friend, who works for a very large company in the mid-Atlantic region, pretty well regarded nationally in its business niche. He was telling me about how surprised he was to see, or hear, a younger employee using a parent to call in for a sick day, to ask for a vacation, to ask for a raise. He said the first time he was "WTF?" and then he said it became a pattern and he began wondering, "can these young adults reach adulthood? Can the workplace survive them if they don't?"
 
I had a just-out-of-college kid in about 2009 show up with his mother. Though she waited in the car. Hired the kid. Total disaster. Six months after hiring him mother called the shop asking when her son was getting promoted.

He needed a new sofa for his apartment. His mother had to come help him buy it.

He was gone within a year. His parents bought him a business of his own. Good riddance!

Sirhr
 

College grads venturing out into the corporate world should, by now, know the ins and outs of the job interview process.

Dress smart. Project confidence. Know how to answer that boilerplate question, “What’s your biggest flaw?” Don’t bring your parents along.

Wait, what? Come again? Yes, it seems the safe-space generation apparently needs mommy and/or daddy to show up as they try to land their dream job.

According to a survey by Resume Templates, 26 percent of those ages 18 to 27 brought along a parent to a job interview — and that’s just the beginning of the disturbing findings from the survey, conducted in April among 1,428 U.S.-based respondents who said they had searched for a job in the last year.

“Gen Z has a reputation for lacking the independence, motivation, and real-world knowledge to contribute in the workplace,” the employment resource provider said in a media release.

That’s putting it mildly.

“Many Gen Z’ers involve their parents in their interview process. In fact, 26 percent of all Gen Zers who have undergone a job search in the past year say that they have taken a parent to an interview,” the media release read.

“Of Gen Z’ers who brought their parent(s), 31 percent had a parent accompany them to an in-person interview, while 29 percent had them join a virtual interview.

“For those who had a parent come to an in-person interview, 37 percent say that their parent accompanied them to the office, 26 percent say their parent physically sat in the interview room, and 18 percent say their parent introduced themselves to the manager. Additionally, 7 percent say their parents answered questions.”

Of those Gen Z’ers who attended virtual interviews, 71 percent said that the parent was off-camera and 29 percent of parents joined Zoom interviews with their children.

There are no words.

Another 24 percent of Gen Z respondents said their parents submitted job applications for them and 18 percent said their parents wrote their resume from scratch for them. (Only 13 percent wrote the cover letter from scratch, thank heavens.)

“The top reasons Gen Z’ers ask their parents to complete and submit their applications include thinking their parents’ work is better (46 percent), not knowing how to communicate with hiring managers (34 percent), being unmotivated (32 percent), and poor mental health (22 percent),” the media release read.

“The number of employment opportunities and complexity of the job market are factors causing Gen Z’ers to seek parental help,” said Andrew Stoner, an executive resume writer for the firm.

“Knowing what a company does, verifying its legitimacy, and understanding what a specific job entails are tasks that can be challenging for someone without any formal work experience. A parent’s help should bolster a child’s development and eventual independence.”

“While a parent writing a resume or cover letter isn’t necessarily an ethical concern, a child should be ready to fully discuss every aspect of their resume with a potential employer,” he added.

“Broadly speaking, Gen Z can become more independent through a healthy partnership; one that is led by a willing parent and develops critical life skills.”

Now, a caveat — while Resume Templates does a great deal of market research into trends in the employment market, it’s also in the business of selling resume services. Furthermore, this appears to be more of an informal survey than a rigorous poll.

That being said, do you know what the number of 18- to 27-year-old job seekers bringing parents to job interviews should be? Zero. Zilch. Nada. No matter how informal the poll, there shouldn’t be a. single. person. who. admits. to. this.

If you have some degree of schooling, you should not need your mom or dad to write your resume. You do not need them to write your cover letter. And you certainly do not need them to sit in an interview with you like you just got caught flushing a cherry bomb down the toilet at your middle school.

Between helicopter parenting, safe-space culture, digital lives replacing life skills, and our culture’s collective tendency to treat maturity and self-reliance as a millstone around one’s neck, it appears we’ve finally raised a generation completely unable to function as autonomous adults.

This isn’t just one of those “kids today!” rants we’ve heard from time immemorial. This time, we’ve really done it. And you don’t need this survey to back this assertion up. Look around you. It takes a village, they say — and our village has raised a generation that knows how to use 86 different Instagram filters but doesn’t know the difference between a man and a woman.

There isn’t a single person on God’s green Earth who should openly admit to bringing a parent along to a job interview. Period. It doesn’t matter if you think their worth is better, they know how to communicate with hiring managers, or your fragile mental health means you just aren’t up to it.

If these are the men and women who will inherit our positions in American enterprise as we move up the corporate ladder — and eventually, one day, take over — we’re thoroughly doomed.


I have to believe that this wierdness falls back on the parents. First, by either raising their kids wanting to be their best friend instead of a real parent or by raising their kid to be a weak, mindless individual. What kind of parent would go to their kids job interview...the kind that is just fucking wierd to begin with!
And they will vote for politicians who implement Draconian gun control law. We all know only Congress can do this and I believe in a decade, maybe two... they will. With the support of these helpless nitwits who will be running things by then.
 
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As an employer I haven't seen any Gen Z'er bring a parent, but what I have seen is that half of the Gen Z generation phone interview very well, and then no call, no show to the in person interview. It's frustrating to the point of not wanting to pursue applicants under 25.
 
Pretty good idea I think. Have your parents stop by talk to the interviewer and then say. Jesus Christ give me the fucking job these two people annoy the fuck out of me and I'll do anything to get away from them. Anything!!!
 
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As an employer I haven't seen any Gen Z'er bring a parent, but what I have seen is that half of the Gen Z generation phone interview very well, and then no call, no show to the in person interview. It's frustrating to the point of not wanting to pursue applicants under 25.
We have 8 gen z employees. They all run circles around the couple boomers we have. In early, out late. I never see them on their phones, and never complain. Ive always felt productive at work, but some of these kids are go getters. Im impressed. Only issue I have found, they will send 20 emails before picking up the phone and talk. They still get shit done. Maybe we just got lucky.
 
Pretty good idea I think. Have your parents stop by talk to the interviewer and then say. Jesus Christ give me the fucking job these two people annoy the fuck out of me and I'll do anything to get away from them. Anything!!!
I'm grateful to my parents for many things, but I went to summer school so I could graduate high school a year early. Then at age 17 I packed my shit and drove away in my 1966 Beetle whose driver door would fly open when I went around a turn. I never looked back. I could not wait to get the Hell away from my parents. I put myself thru college and never asked for or received a dime from them. Sometimes I was hungry and other times the phone or electric power was cut off because I didnt have the money to pay the bill.

I began ignoring and avoiding them around age 12. We weren't on bad terms. I wasn't abused or mistreated and we were in no way poor.

Career wise, I did pretty good. If a young adult with a college education showed up for interview with Mom, I would ask her to leave and give the young man or woman some advice. Then tell him or her to come back when they grow up.

I believe self-reliance is one of the most important qualities of a well rounded, intelligent adult.
 
We have 8 gen z employees. They all run circles around the couple boomers we have. In early, out late. I never see them on their phones, and never complain. Ive always felt productive at work, but some of these kids are go getters. Im impressed. Only issue I have found, they will send 20 emails before picking up the phone and talk. They still get shit done. Maybe we just got lucky.
Not surprised. Gen Z is much maligned. Usually by Boomers. May I say (at the risk of offending some good folks here who may be in that demographic) that Boomers are easily among of the biggest assholes I ever encountered in my 30 year professional career. Especially the 60's hippie variety. Many of them were my bosses when I was young and I couldn't stand them or their phony liberal politics. I referred to them as bullshit merchants who had a mouthful of samples. They changed the world! Yea, look at it now. Their life's work. Thanks?
 
The whole "generation ___" thing is bogus. People do not die/give birth specifically along generation-break lines. Instead, every day all day, births and deaths are happening.

What does matter is when you went to school, where you went to school, and whether your parents taught you any values.

50 years from now people will look back on 1975-2025 and see that it was changes in education, and changes in how people structured their households/families, that caused naive, eternally dependent children who never grow up no matter how old they get.
 
We have 8 gen z employees. They all run circles around the couple boomers we have. In early, out late. I never see them on their phones, and never complain. Ive always felt productive at work, but some of these kids are go getters. Im impressed. Only issue I have found, they will send 20 emails before picking up the phone and talk. They still get shit done. Maybe we just got lucky.

Not surprised. Gen Z is much maligned. Usually by Boomers. May I say (at the risk of offending some good folks here who may be in that demographic) that Boomers are easily among of the biggest assholes I ever encountered in my 30 year professional career. Especially the 60's hippie variety. Many of them were my bosses when I was young and I couldn't stand them or their phony liberal politics. I referred to them as bullshit merchants who had a mouthful of samples. They changed the world! Yea, look at it now. Their life's work. Thanks?

I oversee around 60 people in my department. There are several people older than my father and several college aged and a bunch around my age or elsewhere in the middle. I can’t see a difference in work ethic, based on generation. It’s all about attitudes and how people handle things. The most common theme I’ve seen is people who come from good families tend to end up more good and people from bad families tend to be more difficult (economics is a totally different subject, good and bad families have nothing to do with finances; I’m referring to parents teaching kids and setting examples) Even that’s not a great indicator, as many individuals squander good chances or are motivated to break the cycles of bad relationships.
 
What does matter is when you went to school, where you went to school, and whether your parents taught you any values.

This is a lot of it. I’ve spent most of my life living in the center of the United States. It’s a different world than what I see reported on the coasts and what I’ve seen while traveling there.
 
This is a lot of it. I’ve spent most of my life living in the center of the United States. It’s a different world than what I see reported on the coasts and what I’ve seen while traveling there.
The changes were suggested and adopted fastest in big cities and big suburbs, where people are most attuned to the latest fads, fashions, and trends. Most city folk are status-chasing in a different way entirely than people who live in rural areas. A big part of their status is what college/university you go to, or your kids are accepted to attend. Anything that tells them, as a group of taxpayers, "better education" -- they tend to swallow hook line sinker. Whether it's actually better, or not.

I saw changes in my schooling in the 60s and 70s, and definitely have seen changes (and their effects) since. Also I went to public and private in my k-12 so I saw both kinds of strategy for "education," only one of them achieving anything like what it was called.
 
Here's what I see on the internet:

"Boomer" -- "my parents"

"Gen X" -- "kids these days"

So all the youngsters blame their parents, but can't admit they blame their parents, so they blame "Boomers."

The older folks have a point on "lazy" younger people because it's true. The younger people are so lazy, they blame "Boomers" instead of taking their parents to task, and also, improving their own selves.

You who are much younger than me (I'm in my 60s, so I'd say 40 and younger) can try to blame me for your parents' failings. I don't mind. You can miss targets all day if you want.

I've seen how education has failed you, and how your parents have failed you. Why you would blame me, merely because I'm in my 60s? That's proof of your education failure.
 
I'm grateful to my parents for many things, but I went to summer school so I could graduate high school a year early. Then at age 17 I packed my shit and drove away in my 1966 Beetle whose driver door would fly open when I went around a turn. I never looked back. I could not wait to get the Hell away from my parents. I put myself thru college and never asked for or received a dime from them. Sometimes I was hungry and other times the phone or electric power was cut off because I didnt have the money to pay the bill.

I began ignoring and avoiding them around age 12. We weren't on bad terms. I wasn't abused or mistreated and we were in no way poor.

Career wise, I did pretty good. If a young adult with a college education showed up for interview with Mom, I would ask her to leave and give the young man or woman some advice. Then tell him or her to come back when they grow up.

I believe self-reliance is one of the most important qualities of a well rounded, intelligent adult.
It was a joke
 
It was a joke

Was it? Seems like a lot of people are in on the joke then.


And this. There are more.