I just need to vent a little , I have a niece that's marrying a butch woman , got the invitation back in the summer , the weddings next week , I never responded to the rsvp , mostly because I don't condone same sex marriage, so my brother calls (he's the grandfather) and asked if I'm going ,I let him know my stance on the matter and I won't be attending , I'm a Christian and I know I shouldn't judge others lest I be judged , but I'm not going to celebrate something I consider a sin , and yes I'm a sinner too , but the difference is I'm ashamed of my sins I don't celebrate them , still can't believe we have a pride month, my mom who's 86 said she's not attending either so at least I won't be the only family member not going , I'm I being a prude for not caving in to this shit , it will probably ruin my relationship with her father who I am sorta a second father to , but I guess that's the price I have to pay for standing up for my beliefs, what say the hide .
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It's your choice to go or not go, but you probably should have RSVP'd No to the invite
Tolerance does not demand participation……
Show up loaded with a black hooker.
That'll learn them
That'll learn them
You're a lucky guy. You'll likely be able to shed a few assholes from your life while saving the cost of a wedding gift.
Or if you want to send a gift you could get the Anti Gay book .
Or if you want to send a gift you could get the Anti Gay book .
Stay Strong. And, then, send them a Christian Wedding cake from the "Masterpiece Bakery!" 
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My granddaughter is engaged to her partner. I love her and her partner is a sweet girl. Neither come across as butch. We are geographically separated, but visit when we can. We don’t talk about it, but I think she knows we will not be at the wedding.
If I may offer some input to a fellow believer: you have a crossroads and you have chosen one because you have knowledge of what the Inspired Word of God says regarding the matter - in both the Old and New Testament. Don't think for one second that the enemy isn't using this to get you to give in on your commitment to follow Christ - "just this once". I say that because if you were not doubting your decision on some level you wouldn't put it out here (not demeaning you for that at all, just to be clear). I think going would be the more serious issue than not going, as it would be a follower of Christ defacto condoning the union. This is how I see it. Unfortunately, by being followers of Christ we all have tough and sometimes very sad choices to make. I'm sorry you are having to through with this, it's got to be gut wrenching.
Luke 18:29-30: "And He said to them, “Truly I say to you, there is no one who has left house or wife or brothers or parents or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, who will not receive many times as much at this time and in the age to come, eternal life.”
It may come to pass in the coming days and years that others in your family will not only appreciate your stance but may come to you to understand more about Christ. This may be a period of "witnessing by our convictions and actions" that the Lord uses. I'm not saying it will be easy, but if you are indwelt by the Holy Spirit, why would you take Him to an unholy union?
Those are my thoughts. I hope they came out gently and with as much care as I intended for them to have. And as @EddieNFL alluded to, there is no reason to stop loving her, in fact you should keep doing so, all your days. And pray for her continually.
Your personal relationship with Jesus would not be affected by your attendance of your niece's wedding. He knows what is in your heart, and your love for your niece is not a sin. Hate the sin, love the sinner. If others judge you, that is their shortcoming, not yours.
You're going to be judged regardless. Judge accordingly. Tolerance only invites worse.
Attending a same-sex “wedding” communicates the idea that you celebrate a union that God rejects and affirm a sin that God condemns.
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You good sir, have class. I like your style
Been in a similar situation. Didn't attend and took some heat for it. Still feel perfectly fine with my decision for all the reasons mentioned in the above posts. Stand fast.
So many churches these days are "inclusive" of gays, including pastors. I'm a bit bewildered unless they simply want a larger congregation for the donations. Having said that, didn't Jesus have dinner with a bunch of sinners and hookers?
Communicates to whom? The judgmental? It is a secular event, just as an atheist wedding I attended many years ago. I am 100% certain nobody believed I condoned atheism, including the "bride and groom" (not that it mattered). My faith was unscathed. As was my relationship with my cousin. The marriage did not fare nearly as well...
Same applies to a Buddhist wedding. I certainly do not condone the worshipping of many gods.
As is mine. As a matter of fact, several of the churches in my original protestant denomination have split off from that denomination and formed a separate one of their own. The primary difference being they don't condone LGBTQ clergy (no Bishops, priests, etc. etc.). Admittedly, they are probably a bit more "conservative," but...
Indeed He did. The difference was that they were repentant and following him. What He was not doing was condoning their sin. The woman at the well, Zacheus, a woman who washed his feet with perfume and her tears, and others come to mind. There was also a rich young ruler who wouldn't follow Him because of his sinful desires that were greater than his desire to follow Christ. Christ never rejected the man, but he did let him go his own way. That man could have returned to follow Christ at any time in sincerity, and I think that is a fundamental component that has been discussed here - we do not forsake people, we are all sinners. We pray for them and continue to love them. Loving them and accepting their sin are two very different things that should have no correlation.
Think so.
And there’s always the story of the bible’s most recognized (alleged, shaped by two millenia of hand - me - down legend) former (?) prostitute - Mary Magdalene.
While faith and scripture can provide inspiration, guidance, and times clarity - always be weary that any Tom, Dick, and Harry can quote some holy verse to suit their agenda - and there’s also the thought that the Devil himself is probably the most masterful user of the bible.
I can’t decide who I relate with more - Merle or Negan
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Just remember that hating the sin and loving the person doesn’t mean you have to love them in a way that’s well pleasing in their sight; God certainly doesn’t model that type of love towards us based on what we think, His love is perfect and often comes in the form of tough love.
“RESPECT” for living out your convictions. Most people cower to pacify others. Stick to your morals and your faith. They won’t let you down, sometimes there is a price to pay but the reward for standing firm will come!
If you don’t want to go, you have the right to simply say “i won’t be able to make it to the wedding.”
You don’t have to give a reason. It’s rude of them to ask why or inquire further.
You don’t have to give a reason. It’s rude of them to ask why or inquire further.
The best part about gay weddings is gay divorces. I am always pleased when they get rat-fucked by a superior court judge and lose half their savings, have to pay alimony to some faggot asshole they now despise, pay child support for 18 years for some kid they bought off Craigslist and then are on the hook for the kids college after that. Lose their home or fight to steal the family house and then lose it because they cannot afford it and then go bankrupt. Or they get to enjoy trying to spend time with their kids when their asshole ex refuses to drop them off on time or sues them every year for more child support.
You really should support gay marriage. It's important they learn what a crapshow a bad marriage can be first hand.
And honestly, you could have just replied, "Thank you for the invitation, sadly we will not be able to attend". Even God was occasionally courteous.
You really should support gay marriage. It's important they learn what a crapshow a bad marriage can be first hand.
And honestly, you could have just replied, "Thank you for the invitation, sadly we will not be able to attend". Even God was occasionally courteous.
Sometimes, the easiest and simplest solution is also the most tactful.
Nobody gets hurt.
You can decide if you want to gouge your tongue out for having uttered that filthy, sinful white lie later.
Then perhaps consider gouging your eyes out as well for having taken advice from Sniper’s Hide, where “nigger, chink, wetback (think I bumped into this term earlier today), and fag” are easily pulled up through the Search Function. Right next to some very holy biblical quotes in some cases, it seems
Jesus loves all.
Or, quite possibly - Jesus is also sick of us all and plans to wipe us out and start anew after the Second Coming. Revelations is quite abstractly fanciful and open to all sorts of interpretation, moreso than the earlier “less exciting” books.
Seriously… Do you want to take your advice from bible thumpers that proclaim godly virtue while remaining silent when feasting their lustful eyes on carnal flesh while perusing one of the Motivational Pic Threads?
Before passing judgment, be wary of those logs! They can be such thorny, embarrassing little buggers!
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Leviticus 18:22 You shall not lie with a male as with a woman, it is an abomination.
Leviticus 20:13 If a man lies with a male like a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they will surely be put to death;
their blood is upon them.
As marriage is a Christian institution the event is clearly covered as well.
I don't have to try to manipulate the verses as they are very clear on the subject.
R
Leviticus 20:13 If a man lies with a male like a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they will surely be put to death;
their blood is upon them.
As marriage is a Christian institution the event is clearly covered as well.
I don't have to try to manipulate the verses as they are very clear on the subject.
R
If you can get ahold of a 60mm Mortar and some White Phosphorous rounds... that would be a great gift.
Sort of a preview of the hellfire and brimstone that those dykes will face soon enough...
And at your earliest opportunity, beat the living tar out of your brother for raising a fucking bull-dyke. Brothers should do that. It's like 'protected speech.'
Do not attend. Don't even send a card saying "Carpet Munchers Suck." Even though that would be funny.
Sirhr
Sort of a preview of the hellfire and brimstone that those dykes will face soon enough...
And at your earliest opportunity, beat the living tar out of your brother for raising a fucking bull-dyke. Brothers should do that. It's like 'protected speech.'
Do not attend. Don't even send a card saying "Carpet Munchers Suck." Even though that would be funny.
Sirhr
Sometimes, the easiest and simplest solution is also the most tactful.
Nobody gets hurt.
You can decide if you want to gouge your tongue out for having uttered that filthy, sinful white lie later.
Then perhaps consider gouging your eyes out as well for having taken advice from Sniper’s Hide, where “nigger, chink, wetback, and fag” are easily pulled up through the Search Function. Right next to some very holy biblical quotes in some cases, it seems
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Or, quite possibly - Jesus is also sick of us all and plans to wipe us out and start anew after the Second Coming. Revelations is quite abstractly fanciful and open to all sorts of interpretation, moreso than the earlier “less exciting” books.
What... A nagger is just someone who annoys you. And a chink is something that you definitely do NOT want on the hull of a spaceship or deep sea submersible... A wetback can make you more susceptible to catching a cold. And fags are quite expensive these days at $10-20 a pack depending on where you at...
You're good. I feel the same way, and would have done the same. I have one lesbian GD, one GD that's trying to trans., and one GS that can't make up his mind if he wants di$k, or clam.
When you use the phrase...Dis-functional Family(yes, it's 3 out of 6 kids), I have it in spades.
Enjoy your life and press on. Mac
When you use the phrase...Dis-functional Family(yes, it's 3 out of 6 kids), I have it in spades.
Enjoy your life and press on. Mac
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I don't think you are being rude. Don't let them try to bully you into submission either by using that as their platform to attack you.
Love the sinner, not the sin.
You have just as much right to not participate in their wedding as they do to invite you. At a wedding you serve a role as a witness, and as a Christian you are therefore serving as a witness to an abomination of God's will for marriage between man and woman. It is quite literally choosing to side with the enemy.
This doesn't mean that we shut the sinners out of our lives, for we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. It means that we still love them, but choose not to support what they do. If you shut them out, you further add to the barrier that they have in hopefully one day finding their way back. If you cave in and support them, then you are giving them the idea that what they are doing is okay too, and repentance isn't needed.
I won't be attending any gay weddings. That doesn't mean that I use my invitation as a launchpad for my lecture either. I think you are doing the right thing.
You're good. I feel the same way, and would have done the same. I have one lesbian GD, one GD that's trying to trans., and one GS that can't make up his mind if he wants di$k, or clam.
When you use the phrase...Dis-functional Family(yes, it's 3 out of 6 kids, I have it in spades.
Enjoy your life and press on. Mac
Probably should go bitch-slap their HS teachers and/or college professors.
These fucking retards need to be de-programmed like 1970's cult members...
Sirhr
Can you post pictures of the two brides?
With greatest respect... fuck that shit.
Shame them in to suicide if you have to. Browbeat the parents... shame the little retard-nar-nar's... and make it apparent that it's all mental illness.
NO fucking quarter to these idiots. If they get all fucked up in the head and gas themselves in their carbon-offset fancy ovens... then it's a win.
Because every one of them that survives another week turns into a beacon of retard for a dozen more kids who don't deserve to be led down the path of mental illness.
No fucking quarter. Darwin demands that they off themselves and exit the human race... before polluting the rest of the species.
Sirhr
PS. No qualms about posting. Or advocating. They should do dual-suicide... not bush-likker marriage. Species -level-aberrations are not to be celebrated... they are to be exterminated.
Yes sir! Right over the target with that statement. Believe me, I distance myself as far as I can from that family. Luckily, she's in commiefornia and we are 2200mi. miles from that situation.
Really sad for the wifey and I. Mac
I think that I missed something......... She is your niece? Your Brother is her Grandfather? So is she your Great-Niece?
If that is the case I found the problem. Only interact with the family you have to. Shit, I do not even know the last time I talked to my first cousins. Not even sure if they are dead or alive.
Remember this: We can choose our friends and keep them as long as we want. We can't pick our family, you are stuck with them. So only interact with those that you would have as actual friends.
If that is the case I found the problem. Only interact with the family you have to. Shit, I do not even know the last time I talked to my first cousins. Not even sure if they are dead or alive.
Remember this: We can choose our friends and keep them as long as we want. We can't pick our family, you are stuck with them. So only interact with those that you would have as actual friends.
Sir, you stated what I tried to say much better and more succinctly. Hats off to you.
While I don’t disagree with your statement, as the years go on I am reminded that I have been given grace and mercy. There came a point in my walk that it became obvious that I have been forgiven and am forgiven on a daily basis. I should hold His standard while being willing to extend the same to others when they are open to it, while never personally deviating from His call.
That doesn’t mean I condone what they do, but it does mean that I am no better. The plank in my eye is not smoother, it may be rougher. We simply do not know when God says to someone “it’s time to come to Me”. I have gotten past thinking I have the answers, that’s up to God. The best I can do is follow Christ, and I am so imperfect at that. But we all should strive.
If I look at people now that are in obvious sin I know what I am. I wonder what else I am that I’m not even aware of. God gave us mercy and grace through His son, somehow I need to give the same while representing Him. At the same time you are not wrong, and we are called to be His followers. Much wisdom is required.
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Except that these aberrations both vote and influence children at this point.
They should be prevented from doing both.
And since logic won't dissuede them from one or the other... They should be persueded to self-immolate... or similar.
Fucking tired of these retards and mental midgets influencing other vulnerable children.
If one can identify them and their mental illnesses... they should be persueded at all haste... to light themselves on fire or throw themselves off tall bridges. It would be a great bonus if their suicide note would suggest that they are kak-ing themselves because they hate Elon Musk or because Joe Biden touched them in unmentionable places.
Die, commie, retard, mental-illness, tranny, carpet-muncher idiots... die.
Even though we know you will still vote Democrat 40 years after you self-immolate.
Sirhr.
PS. No quarter. Oh and for the quadruple-vaxxed.. who are all attending dyke weddings... no refundes!!! Bah aha hahhahahah....
Giving grace is a virtue.
Allowing the destruction of a Christian society under false doctrine, what were are currently witnessing.
Christians have been sold on turning the other cheek.
How's that going in the western world?
New testament is the new covenant to salvation, the rules from the old on conduct didn't change.
They've proven it wasn't just "marriage".
Ephesians 5:3-17
R
Very true, and if you are a mosaic era Jew, I think that this is as solid as stone
. No manipulation needed.Totally agree. At the same time I want to leave room for everyone to come to Christ while holding the standard He set. We never know whom He may call, and I have no intention of being that roadblock. Maybe each of us can be the witness to someone who is searching. Hopefully He uses us all in that way.
They don’t just influence children, they love nothing more than to steal their innocence.
This X100. Perfectly written, highlighted the most crucial part.
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