I've noticed some powders seem to recoil more than others for a given velocity. I have no scientific facts to back it up it just feels like more.
I will say that of all the powders I've shot (and I've tried just about every powder that works) in a 308, IMR 4064 was the softest recoil of them all. Again, simply based on how it felt on my shoulder.
I like the 4895 or Hodgdon Benchmark powders for the lighter bullets, and Varget, or IMR 4064 for the 175's.
I've never tried 2000MR powder but I've heard really good things about it for 185gr bullets in 308.