There are small gap-fillers that can address the "play" between upper and lower, the trigger is an easy swap, as is the buttstock, and you can install a new floating quad rail easily too, with a new barrel nut that might line up better. I don't think there is any issue with your barrel tightness, that is exactly why the range is so broad.
So, if yours is shooting to your satisfaction, you can clean up what you want for around $500 tops. Or you can start over on a new one. Be aware that most lower parts kits have crappy triggers, even those that claim NM 2-stage will be nowhere near as good as a stand-alone aftermarket trigger from a reputable trigger maker.
Yours is a classic case of buying parts on the cheap for the first round, then wanting better stuff later. Most of us who have been doing this awhile have a drawer or closet or small shed filled with swapped parts from previous builds. With a cheap lower or 2, I could build complete guns from stuff sitting in boxes under my reloading bench, it is the nature of learning. You can try selling the old stuff, or just sell the entire gun and start from scratch.
The fun isn't in the building, it is in the perfecting, in my opinion.