I'm using H1000 with the 285 gr. ELD-M and having decent results. A shooting partner chose Retumbo and cannot find any to replenish his stock right now.
I got a set of mandrels in 0.0005" increments and the 0.3350" (0.003" interference fit) gave me noticably better groups.
I'm not convinced that measuring seating force will strongly correlate to unseating force. There are multiple factors that combine to add up to seating force. Neck thickness, neck size, friction between the bullet and neck, bearing surface area and degree of work hardening/springback. Any amount of force used to resize the neck is not present at release. I would expect the remaining factors to remain very similar at ignition to force during seating. If none of your seating force goes toward resizing the neck, then there could be good correlation.
I also found horrendous velocity ES at low powder charges despite seeing some really good groups. So much so that when I tried the 300 gr. A-Tips I didn't even bother trying anything below midway between book start and maximum. I suspect the lower powder charges weren't enough pressure for reliable and repeatable ignition.