Re: 6.5 WSM vs 7mmRSAUM
That's stretching it with the SAUM in my experience. I happen to like the SAUM cartridges, but is the equivelent of a wildcat now IMO. I would go the 7 WSM for sure. Getting to around 3100+ with the 168 shouldn't be a big problem, figuring a 24" barrel....
Good thinking on the stock BTW, those factory stocks are a really weak link, and especially on more powerful cartridges like the 300 WSM range.
The 6.5 isn't gonna have that much less barrel life based on the 2 I have run, which were both 6.5/300WSM's. It is the amount of heat and pressure that kill a barrel, so the larger diameter should give you a bit more, but I got really good accuracy for at least 2200 rounds of really good accuracy out of mine. The second one got adopted by a friend of mine, and is still shooting well according to him, the first one got gone on a trade--had about 200 rounds in addition to the 2200 in load development rounds and break in, so it may be good for more than that 2200 BTW.
If I was going to a wildcat, (saying the SAUM or the 6.5 WSM) I would probably do the 6.5 WSM since it's a WSM already, and that would make feeding simple, and because brass is easier--of course dies are a little trickier, but several mfgs have them available. As to the DBM, out of my depth there, hopefully some of our smith members will provide that intel.
Good luck with your new rig