I use a pretty standard barrel vise clamp set, this set actually:
https://www.brownells.com/gunsmith-...ols/ar-15-m16-barrel-vise-jaws-prod12470.aspx
I use that for flash hiders and such. For tightening the barrel nut down the absolute best way I've found is a Geiselle Reaction Rod. Like this:
https://geissele.com/ar10-sr25-reaction-rod.html
They make one for the AR15 and one for the AR10/SR25 system. Now these are fairly expensive. But if your going to be doing your own builds or barrel changes down the road they are worth every penny. They go through your upper and engage the locking logs of the barrel extension, no stress on the upper at all. Plus it helps to keep the receiver square. Otherwise, for $30 or so you can get the barrel vise clamp I mentioned up top and fasten the barrel that way, then snug your barrel nut to the upper.
I am not a big fan of the upper receiver clamps that hold the upper and when you torque the barrel nut down all that pressure of the barrel nut wrench is on the upper receiver or push pin lugs. After watching a guy snap a new Colt upper into 3 pieces using one of those plastic clamp on upper receiver blocks, I realized the barrel should always be clamped, not the upper.
Depending upon what type of handguard your using will dictate what type of barrel nut wrench you'll use. They normally have a square notch to place a torque wrench into to make sure you have your torque right. I would recommend a torque wrench ($50-$100) and a decent sized bench vise ($40) if you don't already have them. I always use Aeroshell 33MS on the upper threads and a light coat on the socket/barrel extension area. I don't like putting loctite on barrel extensions but some do, ymmv.
You can also find knock-off versions of the Geiselle reaction rod too. I cant speak to the quality but they are probably fine. I planned on buying my reaction rods then reselling them since they are so expensive. But after using them several times I wouldnt sell them, I love them.
Hope this helps out, I'm sure some more folks will have some good recommendations for you too. Good luck with your build.