Most incels are the way they are because of A LOT of self hate and self respect issues.
"Soy-boys" aside because that is a problem. I think man-shaming men who are gun-shy about the unmitigated havoc that women can cause to a man's life, is misguided. Why the hell would they not be screwed up when it comes to women......???
Today's females, as a group, (not talking individuals) have become largely about: me, me, me,ME, MEEEE!!!!!!! This is especially the case with college females. I live a couple blocks from a college in Wyoming and a lot of these girls are indoctrinated victims, even here. The sun shines unicorn rainbows on everything they do, and men are bad, esp. white men. Yea some guys can find good reliable non-man-hating mates but the proverbial deck is stacked against them from the get-go.
Some how men have it in their heads that being slave to their sexual desires towards women is somehow a badge of honor. And somehow if a man decides that in the modern climate, women just bring too much risk to the table, they are not a real man.
Understand, that not everyone can be lucky in love and the price for being unlucky for me is outrageously high.
Now this is not to bash women
(because any criticism of women is women-bashing but fair game of men) because it is us men who are allowing this to happen. Our generation is the one who has allowed this.
If our collective balls would drop these young folks might be in a better place.....
Right now it seems the best form of protest and safety is abstinence. Women are feeling this and starting to question all this man hating.
When society stops treating boys as "defective girls". Stops encouraging
"toxic femininity" and
single motherhood perhaps men will once again want to participate.
Man to man, the best thing I can say is when it comes to women: Just stop man-shamming......