Awwwright, I gotta chime in here;
1. Fuck stinkeye. She'll get over it. Mine did. Took 25 years. (it wasn't cheap though. Forget flowers, it's jewelry level stuff). Once she gets over it, understands and encourages you to "go enjoy" your hobby, she's graduated (with honors) into the keeper class.
2. Completely agreed that one should start out on a single stage. Best teacher there is.
3. (When you graduate to a progressive)
Do Not sell your single stage gear ! Keep it, you will come back to it periodically. If it is no longer there, you will be pissed. (Don't) Ask me how I know.....
4. "Warm" dinner ? What's that and who the fuck cares ? If she's eating warm dinner, watching her favorite tv show and I'm in the garage (and not out at the bars chasing skirts), she not only doesn't care, she's happy. (She'll never tell you that though).
5. "
Once I clear a spot for a small bench" ? Your bench is too fucking small. Fix the problem, don't compensate.
6. Retire the old, beater refrigerator in the kitchen and buy her a new one. Put the old one in the garage/man cave. Win/win for all. You'll figure out what to put it in pretty quickly.
7. Lighting, lighting, lighting!! Shitty lighting sucks, don't suffer through that.
8. I think I saw on Sir's posts about his new reloading room that he put outlets at 48" AGL. Brilliant. Once you do that and you try to plug something in to an outlet 9" to 12" above the floor, you'll immediately understand the wisdom of 48 inches.
9. Good storage. Comes in many varieties. Mine is in the form of tall wire rack shelving, on casters, Rubbermaid bins and ammo boxes. Completely modular/scaleable.
10. Bulk reloading supplies. I just consolidated and organized my long since purchased reloading gear and supplies. I found (and consolidated) inventory that is now going for 4 to 5 times what I paid for it originally. Talk about shooting cheap.
11. Get a cheap (or expensive, if you wish) Bluetooth speaker(s) for your favorite form of cell phone or iPad like device. My favorite (YouTube) reloading music is Oscar Peterson, David Gilmour, AC/DC, Andrea Bocelli and Johann Strauss II. Play what you want and tell the world to go screw. This is your space, entrance by invitation only. Invitations are few and far between.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_c...&v=1ZaEMzJv7_w
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2HAZP7nWo6A&t=1452s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Og3joyCntrI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWP9Nv6DUsg
12. Last, but not least (and you are going to really hate me for this one);
Mr. Bulletfeeder.
http://www.mrbulletfeeder.com/
The problem is it opens a new gateway into all kinds of new, shiny, expensive bling. I got mine dialed in for 9mm, 147gr RN's and it just plain works. Not cheap, but the giggle factor (and speed/efficiency) is worth it. But, I can load 1200 rds per hour, manually (Dillon XL650). That's not really the point though. I want high quality, inexpensive, consistent ammo that I make myself. I usually run at 600 to 800 rounds per hour.
I don't reload because it's cheap/saves money (which it does). I go out to the man cave to relax, use my brain for things I want to use it for, and have the satisfaction of building/making something. To me, that's the satisfaction of reloading.