LOL. No.....dropping your ammo in the mud and not cleaning it off is not "relative." "Clean" is relative. Some people out in the world think 1 shower a week is "clean." Or the thread (forgot which one) where the guy doesn't clean his brass before sizing and was wondering why he was having issues. It's literally negligence. Concur, negligence and abuse, but that's just my opinion. Running a system that is not performing properly with the gas system isn't "relatively extreme," that's running a broken system. Over gassed "for reliability" which is really just improperly timed semi-autos is common and I would say a norm. Broken? Not exactly.
Being hard on tools is fine, and sizing brass with enough room for the bolt to fall free will run in just about every environment you can name. Been there, done that. Worked behind a rifle for a long time.
If someone doesn't clean their brass or runs muddy ammo, the fix isn't sizing your brass shorter. It's cleaning the brass or wiping the mud off. At some point you cross the line from "relative" to wrong/negligent. If you size your brass another .001-.002 past falling free to feel better, that's fine. If you do it because you run trashed brass or don't wipe your ammo off it you drop it.....that's very bad. And you're likely going to have many other issues if you can't be bothered to not do those things. (by you, I mean this theoretical person who's showing a round coated in mud into their rifle chamber). He's oddly passionate about it (and not very diplomatic) but it's not like he's advocating sizing brass to dimensionally smaller specs than virgin. At least not that I saw. Is his methodology optimal, perhaps not. Is it wrong? Not necessarily.