Re: Focusing an IOR
Do you own other similar scopes, IE with side-focus parallax or adjustable objective? Any problems with those?
I would test the scope very thoroughly this weekend if you've just received it and it is Brand New. Don't wait. If you have a problem, inform the dealer you bought from and ask for a replacement on Monday or Tuesday.
If the scope is mounted, put the rifle in a supported rest position and begin testing the scope at 75-100yds. A sign with various sizes of text and different object shapes is a decent test target.
Evaluate the scope at each level of magnification. At lowest power and every other indicated level. Do you notice any distortion of sight picture? Is outer area of sight picture different from the central area? Are straight lines and square objects correct? Any fuzziness or softening of image anywhere you can see? Take notes of any defects.
You say the reticle won't stay sharp? Does it sharpen up when parallax is adjusted? Does the inner/outer area of the sight picture change?
Have your wife or friends give you their opinions and see if they have the same problems.
If the scope is Brand New and you've had no other similar problems with other scope brands you've owned, I would return the scope to the dealer for replacement or refund if you can't get this problem sorted out in a couple of hours. The tendency is to believe you are doing something wrong, but if you've never had these problems with any other scope you've owned, you just have to understand the scope is defective.
Scopesights are complex instruments with lots of moving parts. Hope you get yours sorted out or refunded/replaced.