Here's the thing:
Some people don't like to handload. Why spend a ton of money on all that shit for a separate (complimentary but separate) hobby that you may not like?
I tell the same thing to people who ask me about fly tying. Find someone getting rid of a vice and a box of materials before you go spending a ton of cash on something you may not enjoy...
Screw all the brass polishing/tumbling and procedures that don't need to be done. If you get a set of good dies and carefully weigh each charge you can beat the factory on a Rockchucker without spending thousands and thousands of dollars. Why would you do that before you know if you'll even use your reloading equipment? There's always a shit ton of basic kits on ebay because people buy them and never use them. You can get a full set of all the stuff you NEED in one of those sets without all the stuff that you may want to add later.
Buy the Lyman book (because it is the best basic reloading manual in terms of procedures) and a used kit off ebay, and see if it's for you first. The kits have all the stuff you need, and none of the stuff you don't. If this is for you then hold onto your wallet, because you can spend money on handloading very easily.
Ask me how I know.