Believe the recovery timelines. For everything. Have a friend who didn't listen and his ankle healed a couple degrees off-straight. Whoops, that is what it is forever now.
Over time I've realized (and heard from others) the classic war movie thing of the guy sneaking out of the hospital etc to join the raid, cutting off his cast or so on is stupid. How you feel is not the same as how you will perform, so listen to the docs.
My laproscopic hernia recovery was much longer than I had expected from other surgeries, illnesses, etc. Outpatient so sure you can hobble around the house immediately, sit and watch TV and after a few days are up to (WFH) office work sorts of stuff. First 3-4 days had bouts of not just discomfort but sharp pains as it all healed over the mesh, or whatever, so prepare for that.
But the tricky bit is after that, less than a week in, I thought "I feel pretty good today." Put on shoes, to go for a walk around the block. Got to the end of the driveway and almost didn't make it back to the house on my own power. Just totally wiped out from the recovery process and it didn't show until I tried to do something. Aside from that, pushing it can sure can mess with the healing process, get worse scars, etc so believe the timeframe and do nothing until cleared to do so.