Thanks everyone for the advice so far. Over the past week I've been taking steps to change my eating and exercise habits to start losing weight. I haven't weighed myself in a few weeks and don't plan on doing so until around my birthday next month but I feel better, have more energy and am learning to deal with
Thus far I've taken the following steps:
- Stopped drinking soda entirely (did this back in March). Replaced soda with either water, flavored water, or sometimes juices/teas. Will have a glass of milk every so often (once or twice a week).
- Started eating a light fruit-based breakfast instead of nothing.
- Started tracking my diet with MyFitnessPal. Working on keeping a ~500-700 calorie deficit based on a BMR of ~2500
- Started bringing my own lunches to work. Portion sizes are smaller, foods are healthier, and the food is much cheaper than anything here in NYC.
- Gym 3x a week for one hour, 1/2 weight training and 1/2 cardio. Also have a few free personal training sessions to use up so my first one is tomorrow.
Things i'm planning on doing over time
- Move to a bigger breakfast while decreasing the size of my lunch and dinner. Eventually I would want to eat 4-5 evenly sized and spaced meals a day.
- Slowly cut out sugars and random snacking. I feel more frequent, smaller, evenly spaced meals will help with this.
- Move to 4x a week for one hour at the gym. Explore personal training sessions as I work best when personally motivated.
- Start taking 1-2 free classes a week at the gym. They offer TRX, Kettlebell, and other courses for free, might as well take advantage.
- Look into taking up a martial art. Sadly there isn't much around me that isn't Tiger Schulmann's Karate but I know of at least one Tai Kwon Do/Hap Ki Do studio around but I was hoping for something more modern.
Also, point of clarification, its not my wedding that i'm slimming down for, its my best friends. I'll likely end up in the bridal party and I want to look good. I've done the math and precision rifles are cheaper than a wife/kids so i'm sticking with them and my dog for the foreseeable future.