I've known two guys now, where they have come home to receive word that their wives were now flying the rainbow flag. The first guy was 25 years ago and he got sideswiped. The second guy was 6 or 7 years ago and it was the best thing that ever happened to him. He got divorced and found himself a normal (yes, bi-polar) woman.........
Won't speak for anyone else, but mine has a lot of Red headed French Canadian blood flowing through her veins. We used to fight like cats and dogs (over useless b/s). She's settled down and is quite pleasant now. We don't argue over much of anything anymore. Married for 35 years, together for 40 years, so it can happen.......