I had a waitress stop my heart before, as well as my brain.
Story time:
Back when I was a kid, going to guess 8-10 (just when I learned about girls) we would take a summer vac to Florida, this is back when even as a kid you would wear slacks a jacket and tie to fly on a plane....Disney world still used tickets, so a day or two ago.
The trip would be my mother, my aunt, my grandmother, and two cousins, I was the only male there.
Once at a restaurant I am pouring ketchup for fries or something, and this goddess of a waitress comes by. Everything freezes for my entire world, but gravity and I end up with a plate full of ketchup and all the women laughed at me, and the waitress just smiled at me and took my plate and brought me a new one. All the women gave me endless shit over this, and I remember it to this day 50 years later. Yes it was funny, but enough is enough.
I got up to go to the bathroom and really just try to bust up the cycle of jokes at me. And on the way to the bathroom the waitress stopped me, and said I was very sweet, nice and handsome. She kissed me, my first kiss and said she is sorry how the "hens" at the table acted and all women are not that way. She smiled and that was it.
I can only imagine what would happen today if that happened, she would likely be in jail, after all she is not Joe Biden.
I did learn a great many things that day, there are "different" women then the ones I was always around, actually married one 37 years ago. And I saw the true colors of what I later learned to be "feminism"