Their kids cling to their beliefs because of violence and fear.
Are you sure? How well does that work for us? We can't even get away with "spanking" anymore. I'm not an apologist for Muslim culture, but I do know that Americans spend very little time with their children. We seem to have higher "me" priorities than these cultures we hate so much. You don't have to be on board with them. Just learn what they do well, and the hows and whys.
I honestly can't believe that you'd think that the vast majority of children who are subjected to violence and fear, in a free society, would choose to stay in it.
Religion is powerful, because it creates a sense of community. It happens with Mormons, Amish, Mennonite, and various cults, that are majority white.
I've raised two amazing kids. There's no secret to how it was done. I talked to them, spent most of my available time with them, and stood by them, when they needed it. I fought for them, or I explained to them why I didn't, when it wasn't warranted. In short, I absolutely prioritized them. And I'll guarantee you, that I'm not special. I'm a pretty shitty person, to be quite honest.
Religious cultures tend to be built around the extended family. Grandparents, especially. In this country, we tire of them, and put them in a nursing home, so we don't have to deal with them. Fine. But you reap what you sow. If you're a culture that treats everyone and every thing as disposable, that's the values that you'll build in. And that's why your Muslim co-habitants will ALWAYS stick together, wherever a disparity or disagreement with your own culture is concerned. I mean, this isn't hard to figure out - but alternate narratives get in the way.
All the while, you've got liberal white women who are doing whatever they can, to power-grab their way to top of the popularity pile. They'll side by tyrants and dictators, if it gets them what they want. They'll sell out their own families, if that achieves their goals. They are hated by literally EVERY culture on Earth, and are exploited as useful idiots, by the same...