https://americanmilitarynews.com/2024/03/most-military-families-dont-recommend-serving-survey-shows/
"The Blue Star Families 2023 survey showed that only 32% of military family respondents would recommend serving in the U.S. military. Survey respondents cited quality-of-life issues, such as poor job opportunities for military spouses, housing concerns, and poor physical and mental health care services, as some of the current issues facing military families.
“Likelihood to recommend military service is declining,” Blue Star Families noted. “The proportion of active-duty family respondents who were likely to recommend military service has dropped by nearly half from 2016, when it was 55% to just 32% in 2023.”