Allow me start off by saying that I'm keeping the buyer's identity confidential unless a mod specifies it's needed, or the buyer opts to comment. I'm not looking to screw anybody over, but I'm looking for assistance in resolving a pricey issue here, since I can't find site-specific information on this kind of a situation. Without further delay...
Recently, I sold an item to another member here and have run into a problem. I shipped the item on Nov. 27th via USPS Priority and sent the buyer the tracking number. Since then, the package has not arrived at his place, and the tracking info has not been updated at all. I've checked with the post office on my end, and was told by a cashier that "all packages received here make it out the door." Yeah, right. :-/ I plan to visit again tomorrow to speak with a supervisor or open a case with a Postal Inspector.
The buyer has since contacted me, and is upset that the item has not arrived. However, the buyer did not specify that he wanted the item insured. I didn't offer in my ad, mostly due to an oversight on my part, but whenever I've sold high-value items in the past, the buyer specified added insurance. In this case, that did not happen. I don't ship expensive items often, so the thought of offering extra insurance didn't cross my mind.
Now, the buyer is wanting me to refund him the full amount he sent me via PayPal gift because he hasn't received the item (which should have arrived on Saturday the 30th of November). That leaves me with a few problems:
1) I no longer have the funds. Until yesterday, I was unemployed, and the money from said item's sale went towards bills. I won't get paid for another three weeks, and my wife's funds aren't much better off. Could we cover it? I dunno, I'll have to ask, but I'll end up having to pay back those funds and deal with things being tight until then. But I, personally, haven't got the money to send back.
2) He states that if the item in question ever arrives, he'll re-send the funds. His issue is that he's paid a complete stranger and wants his product. My issue is I'll be sending money back to a complete stranger, and I've already shipped the item. I could get double screwed if he doesn't live up to his end of the deal. I can offer plenty of positive feedback on local shooting forums, AR15.com, and eBay. I don't know what his credentials are.
3) I didn't keep the receipt. Yeah, yeah, probably foolish, but I normally don't. Granted, I rarely ever ship high-value items like this, so the included $50 insurance usually covers things, and I've never had an issue like this in the past. Will I be keeping receipts in the future? Yep, lesson learned there. But because I don't have it anymore, I can't "prove" I've shipped anything, aside from offering a tracking number that's not getting updated.
I can't seem to find a "code of ethics" or anything like that here on the site. Perhaps I'm not looking hard enough, but is there a policy anywhere that the site abides by? I don't want to see either of us get banned here. But I just feel that the buyer not specifying insurance is an oopsie on their part and not the other way around. I didn't offer to pay for it, and he didn't ask for it. Who carries the burden of responsibility here? How would the Hide proceed here? Any mods want to offer advice on what would offer due diligence to this situation?
Thanks, all. I'm hoping that the item shows up so this can all be over, and we can carry on with life.
Mods, if this needs to be moved, please do so. If you want this deleted, I'll do that as well. Again, I've kept things confidential, as I'm not here to screw anybody's reputation (or pocketbook) over. Just looking for help on how to move forward.
Recently, I sold an item to another member here and have run into a problem. I shipped the item on Nov. 27th via USPS Priority and sent the buyer the tracking number. Since then, the package has not arrived at his place, and the tracking info has not been updated at all. I've checked with the post office on my end, and was told by a cashier that "all packages received here make it out the door." Yeah, right. :-/ I plan to visit again tomorrow to speak with a supervisor or open a case with a Postal Inspector.
The buyer has since contacted me, and is upset that the item has not arrived. However, the buyer did not specify that he wanted the item insured. I didn't offer in my ad, mostly due to an oversight on my part, but whenever I've sold high-value items in the past, the buyer specified added insurance. In this case, that did not happen. I don't ship expensive items often, so the thought of offering extra insurance didn't cross my mind.
Now, the buyer is wanting me to refund him the full amount he sent me via PayPal gift because he hasn't received the item (which should have arrived on Saturday the 30th of November). That leaves me with a few problems:
1) I no longer have the funds. Until yesterday, I was unemployed, and the money from said item's sale went towards bills. I won't get paid for another three weeks, and my wife's funds aren't much better off. Could we cover it? I dunno, I'll have to ask, but I'll end up having to pay back those funds and deal with things being tight until then. But I, personally, haven't got the money to send back.
2) He states that if the item in question ever arrives, he'll re-send the funds. His issue is that he's paid a complete stranger and wants his product. My issue is I'll be sending money back to a complete stranger, and I've already shipped the item. I could get double screwed if he doesn't live up to his end of the deal. I can offer plenty of positive feedback on local shooting forums, AR15.com, and eBay. I don't know what his credentials are.
3) I didn't keep the receipt. Yeah, yeah, probably foolish, but I normally don't. Granted, I rarely ever ship high-value items like this, so the included $50 insurance usually covers things, and I've never had an issue like this in the past. Will I be keeping receipts in the future? Yep, lesson learned there. But because I don't have it anymore, I can't "prove" I've shipped anything, aside from offering a tracking number that's not getting updated.
I can't seem to find a "code of ethics" or anything like that here on the site. Perhaps I'm not looking hard enough, but is there a policy anywhere that the site abides by? I don't want to see either of us get banned here. But I just feel that the buyer not specifying insurance is an oopsie on their part and not the other way around. I didn't offer to pay for it, and he didn't ask for it. Who carries the burden of responsibility here? How would the Hide proceed here? Any mods want to offer advice on what would offer due diligence to this situation?
Thanks, all. I'm hoping that the item shows up so this can all be over, and we can carry on with life.
Mods, if this needs to be moved, please do so. If you want this deleted, I'll do that as well. Again, I've kept things confidential, as I'm not here to screw anybody's reputation (or pocketbook) over. Just looking for help on how to move forward.
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