I am sure the guy might just be having fun with it. Maybe he is serious.I'm sorry for your situation, and I respect your dedication. You are a good man. My wife just turned 50 and I couldn't be happier. This guy is just an idiot or a troll.
And thank you for the kind words, though I don't look for that. To me, it is the vows taken. For better or worse, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer.
I am not wealthy. I have only my word of honor. If I do not have that, then I have nothing, regardless of bank accounts.