but from a buyer's point of view, I'm dealing with someone I don't know. And I'm supposed to trust him and put it down as a "gift" to friends and family? What if the seller stiffs me - I cant go back to paypal and say "well, I was actually buying goods and services from some dude I don't know, but we were trying to cheat the system so there were no fees, and then he stiffed me, so can I get a refund now?"I sell quite a bit. I will not take PP unless its friends and family. Period. I will not accept goods and services.