My boy (26 and getting married in a few months) left the house at 18, could not stand to be there.
He went to a neighbors house to toss hay, and I got a call from the neighbor, I was not worried about that call. He was amazed, this 16yr old kid WORKED, and worked hard, tossed hay, drove the 4 wheeler to the barn, tossed the hay on the lift, ran it up by hand, (old barn no power) unloaded it, and came back down to do the same again.....all day long.
They tried to put him in an office and he hated every second of the day. He was flat in hell.
Currently he is doing coffee for grocery stores, more manual labor. This kid could sell snow cones to eskmos. He loves that manual labor. And he makes good money, not good money for a 26yr old, but good money.
Nothing wrong with getting your hands dirty, and there are some kids that actually do know how to work, and want to work.