I think the exact combination is important, theres no rule. Mostly though, I think the phenomenon of increasing pressure by deeper seating is overstated. Most of us are loading in a fairly small window near the lands, as in slight jam to say .050 off. As best i can recall, Ive always found pressure dropping as I move away from the lands in that realm. I chalk it up to the bullet getting a run at the lands, as opposed to the bullet stalling out on the lands at the point of engraving, as the pressure builds behind it. Even If your combination was building pressure the deeper you seat, adjust the load, as you would if you were developing more pressure than you like, while moving closer to the lands.
I chambered a barrel in saami 338-06 A-square recently. Long freebore, with no reasonable way to touch the lands(not enough bullet in the neck). Ive played with seating depths from about .050 off to .300" off, with no significant changes in pressure. This is a slightly unusual cartridge with its relatively small capacity to bore area. I also did a creedmoor barrel that shows virtually zero change in pressure between .010 off and .040 off. I tested it in .010 increments, and those four loads averaged within 10 fps of one another. On the other hand, in the small window between .010 off and touching(never tested jam) I see pressures building quickly. Not unusual in my experience, and why I usually load off the lands. I mention these two barrels only because they're recent.