Nobody is blowing their brains out for the most part waiting in the private world. They are just dying of their other illnesses. No really it's a brave new world. I think the typical poster here is probably more aware that politics and finance are intricately married and their son has combined the worst elements of both socialism and capitalism with the benefits of both system eliminated. Long waits, high prices, low availability, huge bureaucracy/red tape and huge profits of power and control for a small handful of very few uber wealthy puppetmasters.
The way they get away with this is starting off with exhorbitant costs and fees of insurance or anything that happens including taxes. Then when you actually need anything, sometimes even a $10 for 90 day generic, you get met with enormous barriers, having to call a number that doesn't answer, text a cell that gives error messages, an email with an automated reply with links that don't work. They do everything so you wait, wait, wait, wait, get discouraged, give up hoping you'll be abandoned to your fate and many do. This is from years of working as a doctor in the private system not the VA!
This is healthcare in the 21st century. The government and insurers have decided it's easier and cheaper to let you die. PSA people take good care of yourselves and do your best to I won't say eliminate your need of the healthcare system because this isn't always possible but reduce the chance you will require healthcare.