Glad you chipped in. I did try the bolt in another AR with Elftmann trigger vs Timney and it still failed. Granted, it's got the same buffer weight buy a shorter barrel and carbine gas system.
I kind of feel bad that you've gotten so much bad advice in this thread from people who don't know how to troubleshoot a problem.
You already said you've swapped that bcg into 3 different rifles and the problem follows the bcg, right? That doesn't indicate a need to chase buffer weights, and unlikely to be a trigger issue either. It really sounds like a problem specific to the bcg somehow.
The two common issues with bolt carrier groups that can cause cycling problems are the gas key on the carrier, and the gas rings on the bolt.
Start with the gas key. Is it loose? Are there any signs of gas/carbon being blown out where the key mates to the carrier? That'll do it, and is the reason gas key bolts get torqued and staked. The effects of a loose gas key can be similar to the symptoms you've described as well.
If the gas key is partially plugged up that can cause an issue too, but it's less common.
Worn out (or just plain bad) gas rings are the other likely culprit. With the bcg assembled, extend the bolt and stand the whole assembly vertically on the bolt. It shouldn't collapse; if it does your gas rings don't have the tension they should, and may not be sealing well. (You'll hear some conflicting opinions on this gas ring test, and it's not the final word in gas ring performance, but can help for troubleshooting.)
A couple other items to check, although less likely are:
- Broken cam pin?
- Severe wear of the bolt tail or matching hole in the carrier (this area has the same function as the gas rings, it's the other end of that pressure chamber)
- Unusual/strange wear patterns in your upper receiver (whichever one you've been using this carrier in). That can indicate something strange going on.
Post some pics of the stripped bcg parts if you can't find anything obvious.