Don't marry those 99% of women.
More importantly, don't even date them. Don't sleep with them.
Frankly, it is men's fault that the 99% of women are that way. Men today are weak and willing to sleep with the nastiest, fattest, loudest, bossiest women. Men are quite willing to put up with almost anything if it means sex. Basically, men reward such behavior. What do you expect to result from that?
Pathetic.
That's true to a point. It's only a small percentage of the men that are having bedroom fun with the women. The tall, dark, handsome, rich and successful men are a small percentage of men that are getting most of the sex from the women.
99% of the women have unrealistic expectations for the average man. So the average man, simply gives up and that gave birth to the MGTOW movement.
Those women with the unrealistic expectations will drop those same expectations when Chad Chaddington or Tyrone Thunderstroke pays any attention to them.
Chad and Tyrone will have their bedroom fun with the women then find another one. Then the women complain, "where are the good men and why won't they commit?"
The good men are there but they are invisible to 99% of the women because they don't meet their ridiculously high standards. Then when the women have had their fun and start pushing 30 they decide to settle for the bald accountant making six figures a year instead of the pool boy. Chad and Tyrone aren't looking for the 30 year old woman who's beginning to show some age. So the women who were smoking hot 10-15 years ago have to "settle for the next best thing."
There is no love in that choice but simple economics.
The women who display the porn on onlyfans wouldn't do it unless men were willing to pay. The strip clubs and the women who perform in them make money only because men are willing to pay. So you are correct, if men would not support that behavior, it wouldn't be on display.
So the bottom line is that marriage is a trap and a losing game for men in the modern world. Repeal the 19th amendment and things might begin to change.