We brought the new addition home yesterday. It was a rough night, she wanted to be next to me the whole time and not in her crate. She did better today, hopefully she can sleep in her crate tonight.
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View threadNo, he’s not a rescue. He supposedly is a pure bred, that I do not doubt because of his overall appearance.So was it a rescue? I only ask is if there's an unknown history of a pup - all bets are off. Did she have adequate socialization when she was young? Other dogs and people? It's not a border collie thing. If anything border collies and other herding breeds tend to nip at ankles.
I got mine from a large urban shelter at a relatively young age; the first time she ever barked was when we were at a gas station and she saw a black guy. I spent a couple thousand dollars for two weeks with supposedly reputable inhouse training facility specifically with a black trainer - didn't make anything better at all. She had a second bad experience and she just won't have it at all. I have to schedule vet visits and grooming around that. She's fine with Latino guys, black women, but she will straight up go after any black male she sees. And she can be intimidating AF.
It's all about avoidance now.
The only thing I can suggest would be walk your pup with a muzzle so it can get its exercise, preferably a Baskerville muzzle for air flow, just to protect you legally until you can sort out training. Personalities definitely change after the puppy stage; but of course Cesar Milan would say something like maybe the dog is trying to protect you yada yada, very few dogs are innately aggressive etc.
There's a couple vets on this site here but they never chime in!
It's awful to go through. So sorry for you and your family.Gonna get tough boys. My best buddy for the last 12-1/2 years, and protector of my family has reached a point where it's not fair to continue to watch him deteriorate. He's such a proud boy, I don't want to wait until he's ashamed of himself. He's been going down for a bit now and has lost feeling in his back half. I was trying to get one more Christmas with him but he fell down the stairs this morning when we were leaving for church and I think the time has come. He isn't injured but he was embarrassed, and there's other issues with him not being able to feel to go to the bathroom ect.
Some of us get that one dog that is just amazing and we won't ever really get over. He is mine. This week is gonna be ruff.
My thoughts are with you right now.Gonna get tough boys. My best buddy for the last 12-1/2 years, and protector of my family has reached a point where it's not fair to continue to watch him deteriorate. He's such a proud boy, I don't want to wait until he's ashamed of himself. He's been going down for a bit now and has lost feeling in his back half. I was trying to get one more Christmas with him but he fell down the stairs this morning when we were leaving for church and I think the time has come. He isn't injured but he was embarrassed, and there's other issues with him not being able to feel to go to the bathroom ect.
Some of us get that one dog that is just amazing and we won't ever really get over. He is mine. This week is gonna be ruff.
I've been through that situation, and it sucks. My sympathies are with you.Gonna get tough boys. My best buddy for the last 12-1/2 years, and protector of my family has reached a point where it's not fair to continue to watch him deteriorate. He's such a proud boy, I don't want to wait until he's ashamed of himself. He's been going down for a bit now and has lost feeling in his back half. I was trying to get one more Christmas with him but he fell down the stairs this morning when we were leaving for church and I think the time has come. He isn't injured but he was embarrassed, and there's other issues with him not being able to feel to go to the bathroom ect.
Some of us get that one dog that is just amazing and we won't ever really get over. He is mine. This week is gonna be ruff.
Rhodesian Ridgeback? They're awesome after the puppy stage.View attachment 8564556
She's a smart one, and very strong willed. Training is going to be a challenge.
Not that bad. Keep it fun and entertaining. Very smart dogs, just don't expect blind obedience.View attachment 8564556
She's a smart one, and very strong willed. Training is going to be a challenge.
That's exactly it. The neuropathy is his only issue, so it's so hard to even think about. At the same time, this is a beast of a dog. A true Alpha, and my absolute Best Friend. I've been cleaning up after him as has my wife for a few months. Some times worse than others, and honestly I'd keep on doing it, but when he fell , he looked at me laying down where he landed and I could tell he was embarrassed. He's such a proud dog , I felt so bad for him. I don't want to hold on selfishly, and put him through uneeded embarrassment and anguish, and the cleaning up is really taking a toll. He knows what's going on so he's embarrassed about that too. I've never struggled with it like I am now, but I've never had a dog that I Trusted my whole family to and knew without a doubt, that dog would die before anything touched my wife or kids. He's such a sweet boy and I mean HE LOVES DADDY. He's more "my dog" than "our families dog" though he absolutely loves my boys and he's let them ride home like a horse, tug on his tail and ears, he's pulled them in their wagon, he's gone and lied down in their room below their bed when they cried. He loves us, and we love him, but He's MY DOG. Damn it's gonna kill meMy thoughts are with you right now.
I have been in your exact situation and it may be one the toughest things I have ever done.
Bawled like a baby afterwards and blamed my self, but deep down I knew it was the right thing to do.
To watch a proud alpha male reduced to having me help him up when he fell and lift his back end up in the pickup, clean up after him when he had an accident.
I was more than willing to do these things, but I knew, he knew and it hurt him
I wish you the best and wish I had better words of comfort.
So sorry to hear, and for what you are getting ready to go through. Much prayers for now and then. Stay strong and remember the good, it’s sounds like you’ve had a bunch of it.Gonna get tough boys. My best buddy for the last 12-1/2 years, and protector of my family has reached a point where it's not fair to continue to watch him deteriorate. He's such a proud boy, I don't want to wait until he's ashamed of himself. He's been going down for a bit now and has lost feeling in his back half. I was trying to get one more Christmas with him but he fell down the stairs this morning when we were leaving for church and I think the time has come. He isn't injured but he was embarrassed, and there's other issues with him not being able to feel to go to the bathroom ect.
Some of us get that one dog that is just amazing and we won't ever really get over. He is mine. This week is gonna be ruff.
I would image like training a tractor, Lol. Cute pup, always wanted one.Rhodesian Ridgeback? They're awesome after the puppy stage.
I really have. Couldn't ask for any better and honestly for a dog this size, 12 years is pretty old to be healthy and normal active life. He's never once had any medical issue at all. He's been just a joy and a great dogSo sorry to hear, and for what you are getting ready to go through. Much prayers for now and then. Stay strong and remember the good, it’s sounds like you’ve had a bunch of it.
The "like" was meant as an understanding.That's exactly it. The neuropathy is his only issue, so it's so hard to even think about. At the same time, this is a beast of a dog. A true Alpha, and my absolute Best Friend. I've been cleaning up after him as has my wife for a few months. Some times worse than others, and honestly I'd keep on doing it, but when he fell , he looked at me laying down where he landed and I could tell he was embarrassed. He's such a proud dog , I felt so bad for him. I don't want to hold on selfishly, and put him through uneeded embarrassment and anguish, and the cleaning up is really taking a toll. He knows what's going on so he's embarrassed about that too. I've never struggled with it like I am now, but I've never had a dog that I Trusted my whole family to and knew without a doubt, that dog would die before anything touched my wife or kids. He's such a sweet boy and I mean HE LOVES DADDY. He's more "my dog" than "our families dog" though he absolutely loves my boys and he's let them ride home like a horse, tug on his tail and ears, he's pulled them in their wagon, he's gone and lied down in their room below their bed when they cried. He loves us, and we love him, but He's MY DOG. Damn it's gonna kill me
Damn.Gonna get tough boys. My best buddy for the last 12-1/2 years, and protector of my family has reached a point where it's not fair to continue to watch him deteriorate. He's such a proud boy, I don't want to wait until he's ashamed of himself. He's been going down for a bit now and has lost feeling in his back half. I was trying to get one more Christmas with him but he fell down the stairs this morning when we were leaving for church and I think the time has come. He isn't injured but he was embarrassed, and there's other issues with him not being able to feel to go to the bathroom ect.
Some of us get that one dog that is just amazing and we won't ever really get over. He is mine. This week is gonna be ruff.
Damn.
I'd rather cut a damned finger off.
I don't envy you.
I've grieved harder for animals than I have for family and friends. Prolly not a good trait but true.
Peanut and Dan were beagle and fiest/ rat terrier mix@WasNH4X
What breed?
Buying a dog is easy. It's when they die that you really pay for them.
I'm sorry that you are going through this.
Damn you.The Last Battle ...........
If it should be that I grow frail and weak And pain should keep me from my sleep, Then will you do what must be done, For this — the last battle — can’t be won. You will be sad I understand,
But don’t let grief then stay your hand,
For on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship must stand the test. We have had so many happy years,
You wouldn’t want me to suffer so.
When the time comes, please, let me go. Take me to where to my needs they’ll tend, Only, stay with me till the end
And hold me firm and speak to me
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time you will agree
It is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved. Don’t grieve that it must be you
Who has to decide this thing to do;
We’ve been so close — we two — these years, Don’t let your heart hold any tears.
Somehow felt like I was betraying him when in reality it was performing a kindness.
When it is time, it is a decision made out of love and respect.
Terry, it's a fantastic trait.
I read a lot of threads where people are asking for prayers for a loved one, maybe opening up about a cancer issue or many things like that. I feel for them, but rarely get emotional.
I'm sitting here this morning, up way too early having coffee and reading the new posts on this thread.
I've had to wipe my eyes a couple of times already.
My nose is beginning to run, and my eyes need another swipe
I get it.
I love dogs.........Been a year since I lost one of my best friends. Lucy and I had been through a lot and this dog has never let me down. She was one of my best friends, my daughter’s best friends. I miss her. But we have a new member for the family that has stepped into her place. I love her dearly. She is a pain at times but the sweetest dog also. Then we have the little guy. What a personality he has. He is our snuggle buddy. Always looking for a spot to burrow into. I could be blessed with 2 absolutely great dogs. But Lucy will always be missed. We put a stocking up for her in memory.
Lucy
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Luna is our news member. She is 7 mouth now.
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