Reloading practices are religion. And just like religion, attacking someone else's practice is, well, pissing up a rope.
There is no "right way" to do it. People have to find what works for them.
I do find it humorous that one person says "Reloading is not hard, you just need to understand each process and how to do it effectively and efficiently to make good ammo." and then admits (in their very next post) that they had to change their process, and trim/chamfer as a last step (doesn't everybody?). Which means they really didn't understand the process, and had to learn what worked for them... LOL!
As for peening happening without pins...I've never seen that. But that is just my experience. Same for Imperial Sizing wax; 30+ yrs now, and never had a problem. And yes, I have (and do) used lanolin/alch as a sizing lube. In particular, on large batch case prep, run through a Dillon/Autodrive, set up for case processing. It works well, but leaves nasty shit everywhere that has to be cleaned up, and it sucks trying to get it into the case necks. There's no free lunch. Do what works for you.
Oh, and if you disagree with someone, be courteous about it. Otherwise, you just sound like a know-it-all asshat, that thinks the world revolves around what they know, ignoring what they don't know. And asshats tend to annoy me, which is never good for their longevity on this site.