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I wasn’t scared of “good Christian girls” until I married one, I won’t be making that mistake again.
The loneliest and darkest time of my life was when I was married to a “good Christian girl”, 10/10 won’t be recommending them.
Get out, travel, meet some people. When you find a good one, date for three years.
The biggest issue with church is women. They run the home, their cuck husbands let them do anything they want, they use the bible to say "I think we should do x y z". Don't fall for it. I don't like to bag on church, but I've never seen more wimps in my life than at church because their mommy doesn't think a 15 year old can have a .22 or a pocket knife, they might cut themselves etc etc.
You just have to find a good one, yes they won't be whoring it up in the club, but they also might not be at church.
The biggest issue with church is women. They run the home, their cuck husbands let them do anything they want, they use the bible to say "I think we should do x y z". Don't fall for it. I don't like to bag on church, but I've never seen more wimps in my life than at church because their mommy doesn't think a 15 year old can have a .22 or a pocket knife, they might cut themselves etc etc.
You just have to find a good one, yes they won't be whoring it up in the club, but they also might not be at church.
Hey brother, I totally get it, was in your shoes 23 years ago. Made a mess of relationships in my 20’s, broke up with the amazing women who’s now my wife twice by the time I was 30! Took me almost a year to win her heart back and we’ve now been married 22 years.
My oldest son (just turned 21) feels like you and totally disillusioned with relationships. His girlfriend broke up with him right before thanksgiving 2019 and we all know what happened in March 2020!
The Hide is probably not the best place for advice about relationships
kinda like going into a bar and asking advice on how to stop drinking 
Start a singles shooting club at your church… who knows
same here. Married at 37. We had 4 kids in under 3 years. Last two were twins. It’s better to take your time and find the right woman. Equally important to get your own shit straight before starting a family. Church is the best place to find a good woman. If you do online dating, make sure religion is important to them up front.
Then you didn't marry one, simple as that. Just the fact that they go to church sometimes and call themselves a Christian girl doesn't make it so anymore than "I own guns ect" makes a Democrat a 2nd Amendment supporter. A tree is known by its fruit, not known by what it calls itself or where it grows.
Bah, all this shit these dudes are spouting.
First question to ask yourself.....
"Why are you having a hard time finding a woman?"
Be honest with yourself.
Either you look like 12 miles of peeled back buzzard dick, or you have zero social skill.
Fix yourself first.
Tap ass next.
First question to ask yourself.....
"Why are you having a hard time finding a woman?"
Be honest with yourself.
Either you look like 12 miles of peeled back buzzard dick, or you have zero social skill.
Fix yourself first.
Tap ass next.
You must be able to live with and by yourself and be happy with it. Don't have a room mate and shit. Live life and be happy and don't give finding a wife a second thought.
Then, when you meet a gal, she also needs to be able to live with and by herself.
You have hobbies you can afford to support. She has her own hobbies (make sure she has) that she supports.
You have friends, she has friends. And while you don't have to like all of her friends, nor she yours, take a long critical look at who she chooses to call a friend.
Make sure her momma is still attractive and that they have a normal, healthy relationship. How many times has her momma been married?
If she is pushing to be married and particularly if she is really wanting children, never call her back.
Then, when you meet a gal, she also needs to be able to live with and by herself.
You have hobbies you can afford to support. She has her own hobbies (make sure she has) that she supports.
You have friends, she has friends. And while you don't have to like all of her friends, nor she yours, take a long critical look at who she chooses to call a friend.
Make sure her momma is still attractive and that they have a normal, healthy relationship. How many times has her momma been married?
If she is pushing to be married and particularly if she is really wanting children, never call her back.
Wilt Chamberlain got more pussy every day than most married men get in a month and he never got married.
Spock only got pussy once every seven years in Star Trek and by the time he was ready he was in a blind rage with a boner that could break glass and was willing to fight to the death to bust a nut.
Be Captain Kirk and jam that dick in any green, blue chick you find or bang a few Klingons now and again. Kirk is 90 and still on TV, Spock is fucking dead.
Spock only got pussy once every seven years in Star Trek and by the time he was ready he was in a blind rage with a boner that could break glass and was willing to fight to the death to bust a nut.
Be Captain Kirk and jam that dick in any green, blue chick you find or bang a few Klingons now and again. Kirk is 90 and still on TV, Spock is fucking dead.
American women over 30 have priced themselves out of the market. For pennies on the dollar, you can have a younger, hotter foreign broad that'll take care of your aging parents, make homemade meals from scratch and do weird shit under the covers that'll make your toes curl.
This is the best advice you're going to get. Take it or leave it.
If you get married your wife will probably want a big house on a tiny lot in some douchebag subdivision. Buy land, put a little 1200sf cabin on it and get a dog. Your dog will think you're the coolest person ever, your friends will think you're the coolest person ever and the chicks will want to bang the cool dude that lives in the cabin that has the cool dog.
If you get married your wife will probably want a big house on a tiny lot in some douchebag subdivision. Buy land, put a little 1200sf cabin on it and get a dog. Your dog will think you're the coolest person ever, your friends will think you're the coolest person ever and the chicks will want to bang the cool dude that lives in the cabin that has the cool dog.
Lol women are the devil ! ?
Y’all nust choose poorly
I’m convinced the good ones are snapped up early.
So date younger even if your old.
Kids are great when you have a good woman. We need more right thinkers multiplying.
Growing old without the joy of crotch goblins seems dull
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To go along with @MtnCreek
Lock your wife and dog in the trunk of your car for an hour. Which one will be happy when you open it up?
And, play the virgin card on dates. You will get all the pussy you want.
Lock your wife and dog in the trunk of your car for an hour. Which one will be happy when you open it up?
And, play the virgin card on dates. You will get all the pussy you want.
I got divorced when I was 30. Didn't remarry until I was in my late 40s. That stretch in between was awsome.
You can always hire a maid and food services deliver. Online dating is a cesspool of broken women...plenty of crazy poontang their. Buy a dog if you want company.
Enjoy your life.
make sure you have the cabin on 200 acres. Then you build a 20 ft pit and a dungeon with cages n sheeit. You figure out how to get a sex slave and don’t get caught. You then dress her up like a little piggy, put a shock collar around her neck. Throw her in the pit and feed her deep fried chocolate covered twinkies. When you get tired of her you can chase her on your property and hunt her down like a wild piggy. After that get a new slut, rinse and repeat.
Probably one of the best pieces of advice I ever got was to just stop looking. When you are looking, you won't find what you want. It's when you stop and don't give a shit any more that something will happen.
Don't forget the range for dates, walk around with a AI in 6.5 creed Fuhgeddaboudit.....
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No clue how young people are gonna find each other. I found my girl back in the late 70's early 80's and we have never parted.
But that World and it's Ways are gone and never to return. My advice would be to get involved in some activity you are passionate about and that has a wide variety of people and socialize.
VooDoo
But that World and it's Ways are gone and never to return. My advice would be to get involved in some activity you are passionate about and that has a wide variety of people and socialize.
VooDoo
Woman can "sense" that..... When you develop that "not looking" aura things change.
But, I have often ask a woman "What are you looking for?".... The reply has been "The man I can't have"....
It’s 2022, marry yourself and then bang hookers.
You’ll be doing what 57% of marriages end up becoming, and when you find out you’re cheating on yourself you don’t lose half your shit in the divorce.
You’ll be doing what 57% of marriages end up becoming, and when you find out you’re cheating on yourself you don’t lose half your shit in the divorce.
Yep, the less interested you are in a woman / women, the more likely they might be attracted to you.
Are you a musician? Girls love musicians. At least, I think they do. I met my wife at a gig.
Not a musician? There's still time. OBTW, that "tick, tock" you hear in the back of your head? That's a metronome. Get to it.
Not a musician? There's still time. OBTW, that "tick, tock" you hear in the back of your head? That's a metronome. Get to it.
Kindly keep logic, reasoning or any wisdom away from my nonsensical ramblings thank you very much!
After 18 years of marriage I got a divorce. I wanted some female company, so I created a POF account. After dating a few women and they were all fun, I met my wife, of four years. She's an old fashioned Christian gal, who has my supper ready when I get home from work, takes care of our house, mows the yard and I've had more blowjobs after marrying her than I've had in my entire life before meeting her... and she's a good looking woman. I am blessed. I am thankful for my awesome wife.
Fuck it you do itJust wait until you get told that you are unloading the dishwasher wrong…….
Hang in there buddy, I'm sure you will find your soul mate someday.
That's everywhere. America is fat lol. Or crazy take your pick.
I miss the days of Redbook. Just order what you want off the Internet.
You are 30 years old, still not too late. Do what I did. Go earn your Green Beret or Trident. Get hired making 6 figures and working 6 months a year. Work out all the time. Be in awesome shape with money and confidence. Maybe use the money to start a business like many of my friends did. You might know them, they started a famous coffee company. Other friends who are less famous started trucking and construction companies. Still others, like Ray "Cash" Care, Mike Glover, Shawn Ryan, started their youtube/businesses. You do that and you will never be short women. You can pick the ones you want. Me...I am a kept man with a wife who makes more than I used to, while I work out and go bear hunting. I retired a couple of years ago at 47, and now spend my time hunting, fishing, hiking etc. Work on yourself, and you will get options. Then you get to pick the low mileage good looking one with high morals and you can toss the other ones.
You are 30, you are just starting your prime time of life, dont bother with 30 year olds. Mid to late 20s that are not party girl sluts are what you seek. Get one that compliments your life, not one for companionship. If you are lonly get a dog. They are easier to train, and loyal.
My friends dad, originally from Laos gave him and I the best advice, that I will add too.
To find a good woman go back home (Laos) and go away from the cities to the farms, far from the cities. Find a woman helping her family farm.... I'll add, never bring her to America or she will catch the western woman cancer because most western men are to feminine to keep her from being corrupted by our toxic culture.
I'm in a relationship now with a woman who is not bucking to change my household or question my leadership of it, but if that changes I'll be taking his father's advice.
Don't simp for sluts, never change who you are for them, demand what you want, and don't settel for "good enough", if you do marry record it with your church and or county recorders office, dont get a licence from the state if you're gonna marry her because good enough will take half your shit innthe divorce and youll still be in a marriage contract with the state unless you anull that.
My friends dad, originally from Laos gave him and I the best advice, that I will add too.
To find a good woman go back home (Laos) and go away from the cities to the farms, far from the cities. Find a woman helping her family farm.... I'll add, never bring her to America or she will catch the western woman cancer because most western men are to feminine to keep her from being corrupted by our toxic culture.
I'm in a relationship now with a woman who is not bucking to change my household or question my leadership of it, but if that changes I'll be taking his father's advice.
Don't simp for sluts, never change who you are for them, demand what you want, and don't settel for "good enough", if you do marry record it with your church and or county recorders office, dont get a licence from the state if you're gonna marry her because good enough will take half your shit innthe divorce and youll still be in a marriage contract with the state unless you anull that.
It ain't no fun after they get growed up.........I hardly ever see mine ,they be busy with their own lives now and Dad is wishing they were still going huntin and fishin with him. But,first grandson will be here next month ,sure am looking forward to spoiling him
Just wait until you get told that you are unloading the dishwasher wrong…….
Shit....your wives must be saints.
Cut my finger with a mini chopsaw while cutting brass.
Wife complained about the mess I made in the bathroom, literally before I had time to stabilize my wound and clean up the bathroom. Insisted I "bleed neater" in the future.
She was dead serious.
Stay single.
There are no "good church girls" left.
They are all nucking futs.
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