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    Hi, I have been with my girl now for going on 8 months, and as the title states, she is of another country. I fully intend on marrying her, but both of us have some real fears and concerns. There are a few, but one of the main ones is getting her able to work here. She is a psychologist in her country, and while I know she cannot just come over here and start psych clinic, there has to be a way to get her up to speed whether it be equivalencies or some schooling. Has anyone here married a foreign girl and had them able to continue a professional life here?
     
    Hi, I have been with my girl now for going on 8 months, and as the title states, she is of another country. I fully intend on marrying her, but both of us have some real fears and concerns. There are a few, but one of the main ones is getting her able to work here. She is a psychologist in her country, and while I know she cannot just come over here and start psych clinic, there has to be a way to get her up to speed whether it be equivalencies or some schooling. Has anyone here married a foreign girl and had them able to continue a professional life here?

    One of my co-workers married a chick over in Cuba last year. Waiting list for approval of citizenship for a non-resident spouse or something like that is 14-19 months, then the next step is actually getting the documents which is another year or two.

    Something to keep in mind. Apparently, before Trump it was 3-6 months for citizenship application approval.
     
    Never heard of a marriage working between an American and a girl from Brazil or Russia. I have been told that the ones available for romance with Americans are 100% merc.

    Of course your girl is different. I'll go back into my hole now. Sorry to make waves.
     
    Yeah thanks for the info. Me, a never been laid guy living in his mom's basement never considered the possibility of being a mark for a foreign broad. Maybe I shouldn't have sent all those western unions.

    Seriously, if you're not here to answer my question......fuck the fuck off jerkoff
     
    I'm not sure entirely how that process works, but if you don't either you probably ought to look into it to see how long it'll take to start taking advantage of marital perks.

    I just overheard my coworker bitching about how the US government was standing between him and pussy. There's a website he showed me that puts up the estimated times. I'll see if I can find it.
     
    That's why I was wondering about the green card, if I could start the process now. At the very least, maybe a work visa. She's only got a travel visa right now
     
    Yeah thanks for the info. Me, a never been laid guy living in his mom's basement never considered the possibility of being a mark for a foreign broad. Maybe I shouldn't have sent all those western unions.

    Seriously, if you're not here to answer my question......fuck the fuck off jerkoff

    I did not say any of those things. You want me to get off your thread, fine....I'll just wait for all the Hiders who have Psychology clinical practices to jump in and tell you how to get your girl set up.
     
    Yeah thanks for the info. Me, a never been laid guy living in his mom's basement never considered the possibility of being a mark for a foreign broad. Maybe I shouldn't have sent all those western unions.

    Seriously, if you're not here to answer my question......fuck the fuck off jerkoff
    Lol your in the SH bear pit. Not the immigration advice hotline


    Good luck with your endeavors
     
    Yeah and your point is that since I asked a serious question in the only thread on this site that is even close to fitting, I am fair game to be fucked with by guys I don't know.

    I thought someone on here might have an answer. If not, fine. But don't fuck with me
     
    Just a thought, but why are u asking on a GUN forum in the Bear Pit section? Didn't think perhaps you should be asking questions at your local college or maybe the multiple forums on out of country marriages? There is a thing called Google now, fyi. TheJeep had a good answer too.
     
    I do believe that your first step is to understand the rules and regulations regarding her ability to practice here. The American Psychologist Association will help you there. She will likely have to take some degree of coursework and practicals.

    Besides that I can’t offer advice. I don’t know the laws regarding entry into the US
     
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    "Seriously, if you're not here to answer my question......fuck the fuck off jerkoff"

    Thats what she said.

    Wow, total "Francis." Lighten up, OP. You're lucky nobody mentioned pimping. Now, unless she can take classwork to make up for any comparative deficiencies, and pass a board exam, you're a bit stuck. As was said, call your state board of professional licensing and see what's up. These things aren't usually solved easily, and many times one or both halves of the couple have to settle for a little less. Many years ago, I was contemplating the same situation with someone who was finishing up law school overseas. Good luck.
     
    Just a thought, but why are u asking on a GUN forum in the Bear Pit section? Didn't think perhaps you should be asking questions at your local college or maybe the multiple forums on out of country marriages? There is a thing called Google now, fyi. TheJeep had a good answer too.
    And I agree, but historically, I haven't been very resourceful, so I figured I would ask here. I've seen guys ask plenty of shit unrelated to guns on here involving advice with life issues, and there have been plenty of responses. And thank you to those that pointed out some things, as it already has my mind in gear to investigate further
     
    That's a good idea. Funny, I've always thought of immigration attorneys as scum. I didn't realize they might actually be useful to an american
     
    I married an Ecuadorian Psychologist in 1988. I brought her here on a fiancee visa. It was a pain in the ass. I posted the entire story here years ago. Unfortunately there was a miscommunication. She was a Psychotic Psychologist. I
    Isn't the saying that psychologists get that degree to try and figure out what is wrong with themselves.
     
    Yeah and your point is that since I asked a serious question in the only thread on this site that is even close to fitting, I am fair game to be fucked with by guys I don't know.

    I thought someone on here might have an answer. If not, fine. But don't fuck with me
    Eveyone is fair game in the pit. Some make themselves more fair .
     
    One of my co-workers married a chick over in Cuba last year. Waiting list for approval of citizenship for a non-resident spouse or something like that is 14-19 months, then the next step is actually getting the documents which is another year or two.

    Something to keep in mind. Apparently, before Trump it was 3-6 months for citizenship application approval.
    Not too sure about that estimate being based on who is in office. Had a buddy bring back his girlfriend/wife from Mexico (half his family still lives there, and met his wife through family connections). Married her in Mexico, and then came here and then "officially" married her here. At any rate, it was a year long process (and this was during Obama's administration) and then some. I think the hardest part for her, was that once she came here (and I don't fully understand why) she couldn't leave the US to visit family back in Mexico, until her paperwork cleared. Being a closely knit family (and a slightly spoiled daughter of a wealthy Mexican family), it was pretty rough on her, and therefore on him.

    I will tell you this, it gave the young man (and his wife) a whole new respect for having to follow the legal process, and a whole new level of disgust for those that immigrate illegally, It was interesting, seeing his views change on immigration, just from having to deal with getting his wife's legal citizenship.
     
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    QUOTE="Yasherka, post: 6980067, member: 26453"]Been married to my Russian girl for almost 18 years. She's 13 years younger than me, a total hottie, and has given me twin boys. Pic in the Hot Girlfriends/Wives thread

    Sometimes they do work out[/QUOTE]
     
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    QUOTE="Yasherka, post: 6980067, member: 26453"]Been married to my Russian girl for almost 18 years. She's 13 years younger than me, a total hottie, and has given me twin boys. Pic in the Hot Girlfriends/Wives thread

    Sometimes they do work out
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    Tits are the right size and body shape is correct, but the nose is different and her hair is light brown. And I don't look like him at all, I'm a slug.
     
    All jokes aside, her contacting the appropriate state boards would be the first step. Many are lenient on their licensure requirements so long as her education and post-doctoral residency work are similar to their requirements, but the licensure approval process will likely be lengthy, especially if her doctorate is with an institution that is not yet reviewed. Here's a good primer article from the APA on the subject: http://www.apa.org/international/pi/2011/04/licensure.aspx

    Every state I know of in the US requires a psychologist to have attended an APA approved doctoral program and residency. If she doesn't meet those guidelines, she may very well still meet the guidelines to be licensed as a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC). Certainly not the same level, but good work is easily available with that license. My own girlfriend is an LPC, that's why I know a fair bit about the subject as I've researched the hell out of it since she has a Ph.D in Psychology but not from an APA approved program/residency.

    On the other side of immigrating to the US, an attorney is highly recommended. Her being a medical professional will certainly assist her in those efforts, as Psychologists are in a serious shortage across America, especially in underserved rural America. A lawyer would certainly be able to ensure those avenues are pursued to get her the fastest visa approval possible.
     
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    Not too sure about that estimate being based on who is in office. Had a buddy bring back his girlfriend/wife from Mexico (half his family still lives there, and met his wife through family connections). Married her in Mexico, and then came here and then "officially" married her here. At any rate, it was a year long process (and this was during Obama's administration) and then some. I think the hardest part for her, was that once she came here (and I don't fully understand why) she couldn't leave the US to visit family back in Mexico, until her paperwork cleared. Being a closely knit family (and a slightly spoiled daughter of a wealthy Mexican family), it was pretty rough on her, and therefore on him.

    I will tell you this, it gave the young man (and his wife) a whole new respect for having to follow the legal process, and a whole new level of disgust for those that immigrate illegally, It was interesting, seeing his views change on immigration, just from having to deal with getting his wife's legal citizenship.

    Yeah, like I said I'm not all that well versed in it, but the way he was explaining it it was a multi-step process.

    Step 1 was the application for citizenship which used to take 3-6 months to get approved
    Step 2 was the obtaining citizenship process which involves FBI investigation and some other stuff which was another 6 months or more.
    Step 3 was getting here from Cuba which has it's own stuff.

    After Trump step 1 was at least a year and some change out, and step 2 was projected to be about as long.