I don't keep my rods all over the house, a habit I started from when my kids were small. I have a centralized nerve center via my table/hidden gunchest which houses the guns I don't leave in my safe when I'm home.
I carry a 357 in a pocket holster which is my "walk around the house gun"/take out the trash gun/wash the car gun/bar-b-que gun which gives me some normalcy to living in and around the house, as well as some normalcy for my relatives and visiting friends.
Only my WarVet relatives, a couple of my closest gun buddies, and my family know what I have on me, and what's in the gunchest + what's in the safe, the rest don't need to know.
Several years ago I pulled the 357 on somebody getting ready to rob my house, and I was fortunate that they took off and it ended w/o a shot.
I have a walk in closet which has been converted to a saferoom which I'll put my family into if they're home and something goes down.
I've got my Remington police pumps, my two Vepr 12 semi autos, 3 semi auto pistols, and 3 revolvers in the gun chest, all loaded/cruiser ready.
The gunchest is usually covered w/a nice canvas tablecloth, and everything in my home is rustic looking and doesn't draw attention to itself.
If you were to take the tablecloth off this, it doesn't look as big on the outsife and it does on the inside, but nobody knows that who doesn't need to know.
I keep everything the way it looks because I want folks to underestimate me, and some folks do, and that's fine.