I had no idea about this thread until I got a message just a bit ago. Haven't been able to really get on the hide much except for a PM here and there, but other than that I have just been juggling the girls, physical therapy appointments, doctors follow up appointments, basketball practice, soccer practice, lemme just say that Mom's do stuff so easily, I wish I had the secret sauce that gives them the skills to do it. If i'm not doing all that, it's laundry, cooking meals (we've been blessed with a family that set us up a thing on takethemameal.com which allows friends, family members anybody really to bring dinner to our house), cleaning the house. Whatever time is after that (which is usually late at night after the girls go to bed) I start painting whatever I can before I get too tired to do anything. If you have a stock here waiting for paint, you've been very patient, and i'm very, very, very thankful.
Nicole is recovering fairly nicely, she is walking without a walker, she made sure she didn't need that by the time we left the hospital, she wasn't having any of that. She is on a staggering list of medication right now, blood thinners, anti-coagulents, blood pressure meds, anti-depressents (they apparently help prevent her headaches), and a anxiety medication to calm her down when she gets stressed out about all this. PT is 3 times a week now, but luckily at the nearest hospital they have a specialist that deals specifically in the PT that she needs to recover from the brain injury that she has received from the stroke. She's extremely nice, very compassionate, and knows her stuff. Her other PT specialist has had the same type of injury that Nicole had, started with a VAD (Vertibral Artery Dissection) which caused a stroke in the cerebellum. His was a much more severe case, but he can relate to what she feels as he's been there. Our girls are handling is great, although they don't exactly know how bad it could have gone, I could be a single father of 2 girls now, but i'm very thankful that is not the case. She had a 25% permanent loss of her cerebellum, and considering the alternative, it doesn't seem that bad anymore.
I'm absolutely blown away by the kindness and generosity of the members of this site. I had never really thought about giving an update on this site for whatever reason, I was mostly just posting updates on the Custom Gun Coatings facebook page, asking for many prayers there. It's exceptionally touching to know that you want to help out so much some guy that most of you only know by a nickname on a forum.
Shedhorn has hit the nail on the head on the first post, our whole world was flipped upside down and shaken around. Nicole, family, church members, and I have all decided that there's no use being negative and asking "why us", we have decided to find the blessings in all this, be thankful that she's still alive, thankful that she can still enjoy her children, be thankful that we have so many great, wonderful, caring people all over that are offering to help out in any way that they can. It is incredibly difficult to ask for help, and we do have the reality check of having 2 incomes turned into one person try to make up both incomes by working part time. Nicole is out until at least Feb 17th, and that's still in the air as she's not suppose to be on a computer right now, she can handle her phone just fine, my laptop for a little while, but the big desktop monitor makes her start getting dizzy, nauseated, and her head starts pounding. She's a web designer, and her work computer has 2 large monitors for her to work on. We're hoping that she'll make it back to work without problems then, as she's tired of being home (with me), but mostly just wants to get her life back to normal.
I can't thank everyone enough for their thoughts and prayers, we've gotten get well cards from all over. Nicole has a wall in the dining room where she's placing all the cards around our plaque of the 10 commandments, it's her motivation to work hard to get better, and recover 100% knowing that all those folks are thinking of her, and taking the time to send a card to tell her so.
Shedhorn, thank you so incredibly much for being so thoughtful, and caring, and organizing this for Nicole, I sincerely wish to return the favor when we get over the hump, and come out on the other side. It's incredibly humbling to know that so many care. Everyone that is donating time, goods, services, money, anything, thank you, thank you, thank you.
Thank you, so very much.
Branden