OP, what bullet and brass are you using? Your rifle must have a really long throat, or be shooting a really light bullet, or both, to even fit 31.6 Varget without having to figuratively pound it into the case enough to seat a bullet.
I'm doing brass & barrel breakin with Alpha brass 108 ELDMs seated .050" off the lands. The base of the bullet bearing surface is at the neck-shoulder junction, and the boattail is into the powder at 30.1 grains.
At 30.4 grains of Varget, the load is mildly compressed and I'm getting seriously hard bolt lift, although the primers (CCI-450) look fine. At 30.2, there is an occasional hard left. Barrel is steadying down a bit with 200 rounds through it, and I'm seeing 2810fps with 30.2 Varget (15-20fps slower with virgin brass). I'm going to run one more test to see if I want to back off a tenth to eliminate hard bolt lift completely.
I'm really curious about what bullet is being used here, and COAL.