Someone that owes me $500 from 3+ years ago just texted and called me out of nowhere - Update: White Trash Extravaganza Achieved! WE HAVE MONEY!!
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Knock him out, paint him in black face and put him in a room with Ed Buck.
call and be casual, better fishing.......
or, I was shocked to see this number, I thought I killed the guy who didn't pay back the $500 he owed me. I must be slipping......
or, I was shocked to see this number, I thought I killed the guy who didn't pay back the $500 he owed me. I must be slipping......
And maybe hes calling to pay up. Give him the chance.
This is getting too complicated. Call him back and ask him if hes calling to repay his debt. If not, click and you paid a cheap price to rid yourself of a headache for life.
Play nice and casual, this will result in a more entertaining dialogue.
Also, maybe he’s turned his life around by selling essential oils and wants to recruit you into a program where you can be your own boss!
Also, maybe he’s turned his life around by selling essential oils and wants to recruit you into a program where you can be your own boss!
I dont have an accent
My bad. Im from Boston. I was thinking about my self - projecting if you will.
I pahk my cah in Hahvad yahd.
It's like counseling someone. You always start with "Do you know why I called you in here?"
Let him bury himself if he's looking for more free money.
Interesting.....I've not seen you to be that kind of a person in the past, but it's your choice and it's none of anyone else's business, including mine. My position was that of not packing any more sand down that rathole......By way of disclosure, I'm not any cleaner than anyone else.....I/we/the wife lent a sum of money to people that amscray'd with the money, so we've been burned too.
At the end of the day.......good on you that you can/will look at it from the perspective of entertainment. We just got back from vacation a week ago and were burgled while we were gone, so my humor "bandwidth" is a bit limited, at least temporarily.....
Return text to dead beat.....
"Hey great hearing from you, would of called you sooner but for lacking $500 in cash on hand my life spiraled into hell. My girlfriend left me, I was evicted from my house and had to become a tranny prostitute to gain the barest means of survival. Im just coming out of my depression now. How has your llife been?
You know subtlety..........
"Hey great hearing from you, would of called you sooner but for lacking $500 in cash on hand my life spiraled into hell. My girlfriend left me, I was evicted from my house and had to become a tranny prostitute to gain the barest means of survival. Im just coming out of my depression now. How has your llife been?
You know subtlety..........
Interesting.....I've not seen you to be that kind of a person in the past, but it's your choice and it's none of anyone else's business, including mine. My position was that of not packing any more sand down that rathole......By way of disclosure, I'm not any cleaner than anyone else.....I/we/the wife lent a sum of money to people that amscray'd with the money, so we've been burned too.
At the end of the day.......good on you that you can/will look at it from the perspective of entertainment. We just got back from vacation a week ago and were burgled while we were gone, so my humor "bandwidth" is a bit limited, at least temporarily.....
I'm pretty harsh to people most of the time. I was pretty harsh towards the end of this with him as well, but chalked it up to a loss and moved on. I was always told that when loaning money to friends and family, assume you're not getting it back, when going through your thought process.
My answer to everything in life is almost always no.
Had this been 3 years ago I'd be much more forward and aggressive towards it. Seeing as how 3+ years later someone wasn't able to get their head out of their ass far enough to stick $500 together, well, I've been way past that. No need to stay angry at this kind of bullshit. I bet he has a new iPhone or bought SOMETHING over that time that was $500+; its not like he was locked in a fucking box.
Go right at him from the beginning. Ask him where the fuck your money is.
I dont have an accent
Everyone has some kind of accent.
Hell, people from Georgia think Kansas folks have a funny accent.
Gotcha........I've gotten old enough over the years that I'm just not interested in fighting those fights anymore. I/we have had people hit us up for money in the last couple of years and I just tell them no, outright. The ones that are worthwhile, find their own way and get out of their jams via hard work. They also don't tend to hold grudges against you not loaning them money.
I think the common denominator to solving someone's financial problems is just plain hard work. The wife and I have been through it and what few/little lessons we didn't already know about, we learned with OTJ.........but those lessons were learned many years ago.
phone call off the bat, its easy to type a pitty party and ask for $ on a text
it takes some balls to ask on the phone out of nowhere
if he asks for $ on the phone, then you have a open door to ask him why this time it will be different
no he is on the defensive
you can be aggressive without being mean
just a constant flow of questions that he has to answer because you are still the golden egg
either you catch him in a lie (which is my opinion), or he has a good business plan
gut check time...do you have the "guts" to say no even if his kid has cancer
if you think you will "crack" stay away, everyone has a story
1. everybody has money for what they want
2. loaned money is lost money
it takes some balls to ask on the phone out of nowhere
if he asks for $ on the phone, then you have a open door to ask him why this time it will be different
no he is on the defensive
you can be aggressive without being mean
just a constant flow of questions that he has to answer because you are still the golden egg
either you catch him in a lie (which is my opinion), or he has a good business plan
gut check time...do you have the "guts" to say no even if his kid has cancer
if you think you will "crack" stay away, everyone has a story
1. everybody has money for what they want
2. loaned money is lost money
he might be reaching out to saying thank you and that money may have helped him get his act together, he may not be able to pay it back but wants to get back to being on good terms and clearing the air.
If he hits you up for money, proposition him back. Everyone has a price.
You can find out if he REALLY needs the money.
You can find out if he REALLY needs the money.
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My vote is be nice hahaha, you never know what people are going through ... ??
BUT
If he asks for money again, think of the most disgusting job you can think of and offer him the job haha to see how much of a shitbird he is if he actually wants to work for it or just wants something for nothing
BUT
If he asks for money again, think of the most disgusting job you can think of and offer him the job haha to see how much of a shitbird he is if he actually wants to work for it or just wants something for nothing
My vote is be nice hahaha, you never know what people are going through ... ??
BUT
If he asks for money again, think of the most disgusting job you can think of and offer him the job haha to see how much of a shitbird he is if he actually wants to work for it or just wants something for nothing
Oh if the response is asking for more money I'm going to hang the fucking phone up.
So what else is new ?..............You'd ask for nudes regardless if any money was owed, or not, by anyone.........
Am I wrong ?
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If this thread ends with "He asked for money, I hung up" you're going to have an angry disappointed mob on your hands.
Wut da fuk kinda' shit you been rollin' around in this afternoon ?...................
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yup...ride this shit out for entertainment purposes. i mean fuck, for $500, and interest, you are entitled to something for it...even if it is dark humor.
good on you for trying to help someone, that is admirable. i am sure you see it the same way as me; in that IF i decide to loan money to anyone, i do it with the understanding that i will likely never see any of it back.
as for myself....i could never ask anyone for a dime. i just couldnt do it. i dont know how people get by begging or “borrowing”. i would rather curl up and die than ask someone for a handout.
good on you for trying to help someone, that is admirable. i am sure you see it the same way as me; in that IF i decide to loan money to anyone, i do it with the understanding that i will likely never see any of it back.
as for myself....i could never ask anyone for a dime. i just couldnt do it. i dont know how people get by begging or “borrowing”. i would rather curl up and die than ask someone for a handout.
Thats true.
I'm considering the reversal option in that, I'm actually calling back to ask him for money. Or maybe tell him his timing couldn't have been better due to me just now coming across a unique business opportunity in opening an essential oil franchise.
eta - Shit, maybe I can get enough money out of him to buy that Gewehr43 I've been trying to get!
Make sure you tie the need for money to something he could never afford and act all broke about it. Like needing a new hard case for a $25k thermal.
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Wut da fuk kinda' shit you been rollin' around in this afternoon ?...................
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Nonsense. German asked for the ability to trolololo people and i delivered. He has yet to take advantage of it. Just reminding him that this item is still available.Well, the 4 Roses explains most, if not all of it, I 'spose..........
Whenever I'm being approached by a bum I ask them for a buck before they have a chance to. That's the way I'd go when you finally talk to him. He's definitely going to ask you for more cash.
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