Lots of good info in your posts, but I'm a bit confused about one point...
The parallax knob is only a focus control? So it doesn't dial out parallax (i.e. reticle and target on same focal plane)?
Parallax knob adjusts the focus of the target and the diopter adjusts the focus of the reticle. If both are set correctly everything is in focus.
And if the target is clearly visible than it should (!!) be parallax free. If the target is either clear or parallax free than something was adjusted poorly.
Allthough parallax depends alot on the ambient light situation. A sunny day can result in a different parallax setting compared to a cloudy day. That is why the numbers on the knob are more of a guide. It's best to trust your eyes and not the knob.