I've read some old threads on fixing flinches and various other bad shooting habits. Some recent shooting outings have illustrated that I get into a nasty habit of trying too hard consciously to remain still and steady (muscling the gun). This typically causes me to tense up with my hand,trigger finger, as well as my neck and face. Often times, this excessive tension causes me to pull the shot. I am aware of this issue, however, I struggle (perhaps mentally) to find a postion where I am not limply holding my weapon while at the same time not tensing up. My question is where on the continum are you being too relaxed versus too tense with shooting? Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated.