Honestly, and it sucks, you just have to stop everything. I did the gum, herbal crap, tooth picks and thought about hypnosis. In the end, I simply changed the pattern when I did Copenhagen. Don’t get me wrong, there’s a few times where I wanted to kiss a man square on the mouth who had a dip in but, besides being straight, that’s just wrong…
If you did it as long as I did, it’s as much of an oral fixation as the nicotine. I did regular gum after the nicotine gum but, after all of it, I just had to retrain my brain.
I work construction so, when I wanted a dip, I just went and walked the job, which is tobacco free. If you don’t have that option, try drinking a glass/bottle of water. Basically, substitute something good for the bad.
Don’t get me wrong, I actually still dream about it but, it’s only a dream. It’s all a mental attitude and the understanding that not doing it is better for you. Sometimes that’s a challenge on a Monday morning but, that’s what the extra cup of coffee is for.
All I can say is try your best, don’t hate yourself when you have a relapse and have good people supporting you and not judging you.