You continue making excuses for asshole cops. You should stop
Took me a bit to figure out how to respond. Or if I even should. This post is not entirely directed
308pirate. The "you" in the post is for anyone reading this post.
I am not sure you have read all my posts on the matter. I have not defended his actions. And have a said many times he was wrong.
When there is a car wreck, train wreck, industrial accident an investigatuon is always done as to "why" and "what". But for some reason when there is a incident like this (be it a life wreck). Everyone just wants to shit on people.
We have become a rabid pack of dogs looking for our next attack. I defend the LEO in this case and everyone else for beinging human and "having a bad day".
While this is no excuse for this LEOs actions they are reasons. Reasons are not excuses.
If you get a nail in your tire and a flat tire after that. Your reason for being late to work is a flat tire, it is not an excuse. They are different.
If you know the reasons something happened it is possible to prevent at least to some degree the chances of it happening again.
I am going to assume you have been involved in a road rage incident. Lets say your cut off in traffic, you show your appreciation by giving the other driver the "bird". If you could stop time and ask each person who started it they would point the finger at each other. The first driver would say his traffic move was legal and he meant no harm only to get over for his traffic needs. So he would perceive you as the instigator. You in the other hand would see it opposite for sure.
But since we can't stop time we end up with one driver pulling a gun on another driver in an ever escalating emotional interaction.
The point is, that in this case we had the same thing. Both involved were emotionally charged. Personally I have never been able to "reason" with anyone who is in such a state of mind.
With all my posts added up, I am looking for the reasons the situation got so out of hand. And again I state the nurses reaction is what makes this news worthy.
Maybe there needs to be some training or such. Does the officer need to be reprimanded yea, fired I am not sure. But he probably will be because of the attention this has gotten.
If you are sitting there on your high horse in your glass castle with dinner cooking in a black pot and black kettle, thinking "good fuck that guy". Well I wish you the best. You have either never had a bad day being human. Or you like to judge but not be judged.
The problem with jumping on this guy and kicking him to the curb is the consequences of the actions. Call it the butterfly effect. Every incident puts a noose around the neck of a group. Some nooses are good. Some are to tight.
A truck driver having to keep a "log book" is a noose or a leash. All rules, laws and regulations are a leash of some sort.
If the noose is to tight it hinders more than it helps. In the case of a truck driver it might mean extra time for you to get your delivery. But in the case of LEO it hinders them on doing their job. Each noose should be evaluted for unintended consequences. a very good example of that is Boston. Look at the crime rate in Boston since the Freddie Gray incident. Boston might have a more "obedient" police force now but obviously a less effective one also.
I cut them some slack because they are basicly garbage collectors (no offense intended towards LEO or garbage collectors). LEO deal with the garbage of our society, the people i dont want to deal with. The situations such as child abuse and child rape. That I dont want to deal with. Situations that make me cringe just reading the article in the news that leaves a lot of shit out.
For example the guy that killed his girl friend's son and buried (about 6 inches deep is all) the body in the mountains. The news left out that he covered the body in dog food, hoping coyotes would dismember/eat the body fast.
I told my friend not to tell me shit anymore. I am not a pussy, quite the opposite. I am seriously afraid i could got on a vigilante lynching if i know to much.
I cut them some slack, because of the job I NEED them to do.
Not to get in to my personal life to much but i have had way more involvement with LEO in my past than most. Arrested twice (hand cuffs will put shit into focus). In all those there are 4 incidents I remember like they just happened. At the time i was thinking what an asshole but i kept my cool and everything turned out.
When i reflect back even the next day (it didn't take 30 years to figure this out). One LEO was being an asshole on purpose to try and get me to pull my head out of my ass.
Most incidents were 28+ years ago and luckily i did pull m head out of my ass.
But due to my profession i do have on occasion to interact with LEO.
A couple years ago I was pulled over and subsequently accused of being a car thief. The officer was about 5'6" 120 lbs female. I am 6'1" 300lbs (fuck I need a diet, and less nom, nom, nom thread). When she went from "unregistered vehicle " (not mine I am just the mechanic trying to get it fixed for registration) to "stolen car" in about 2 secs, she put her hand on her gun and unsnapped the retention strap. I kept my fucking hands on the wheel and did not move. Had I been offended of being accused of something I did not do I would have probably been shot.
She was obviously on edge, given my size, and our location was somewhat isolated. In her mind I was guilty as fuck and any movement would have not been good for me. She i think was pretty green still and not sure she had been in such a situation.
I get pulled over 10-12 times a year due to customers cars having a bad tail light or something. I always tell the LEO that it is not my car and that I am driving it as part of my job, I tell them that I don't feel comfortable digging through my customers vehicle looking for insurance and registration, but if they insist, I will just that ANYTHING they see is not mine and if any drugs or weapons appear I will be just as shocked as they are. 99% of the time they say "have a good day, tell the owner to get that fixed". She took my refusal to produce documents and not knowing the vehicle as it being stolen. No shit 2 sec after i say my speech, she says " is this vehicle stolen?" and unlaches her holster.
I could go on, but will just say this. Reflect back on your life no matter how short or long it has been. When emotions have been brought to the surface how well have you been able to make reasonable/logical decisions. You would not be human if you said you excelled in such endeavours.